Virginia - and the Single Male Problem

It is quite evident, from the posts I have seen here recently, as well as in the Forum, and from what some people have told me, that the behaviour of some (many?) of the single males who hang out at Virginia is causing a lot of issues. It's obvious that Virginia is currently the prime Dogging spot in KZN, but inappropriate behaviour by some guys is causing it to lose its popularity, with many couples saying they are not prepared to go back there.. and so, inappropriate and irresponsible behaviour by a few fools could end up destroying what is a great dogging asset! That would be a great loss, for the dogging fraternity, especially for the couples who are looking for a decent place to enjoy themselves without being pestered (some of whom are there for dogging, and many probably not, just wanting some private time together), a loss to the decent singles who DO know how to behave themselves, and then a loss even to the idiots who have spoilt it all for everyone... This is not preaching to the converted guys who do know how to behave (some couples have even commented on this, and how some guys are really great to have around) - this is a message to the gents who have no idea of how to behave decently at a dogging site: Dogging happens by invitation, with the willing couple allowing you to join them to look or maybe more, but it is BY INVITATION! It's up to them to show you that they are willing to allow you to come closer; NOT for you to go pushing yourself into their space and spoiling their fun (and ultimately your own as well - because they will just leave, and not come back!). By all means, they need to know that you are there, but do not go marching up to a car the moment it arrives, trying to peer in, or - even worse - hauling out your dick and waving it under their noses! All you are going to do is spoil things for everyone, and Virginia will cease to be a great place to go and have some fun! Paradise can become a desert if you exploit the resources too heavily... and that seems to be what's happening here - too many single guys desperately hanging out hoping for some action, and many of them behaving rudely. Please guys - show some respect! Hold back until a couple indicates that they are happy for you to approach. And if they don't, it was not meant to be, and there will likely be another chance some other time. But if you keep spoiling it for the willing couples, EVERYONE will lose out in the end.