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Why the silence?

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I’m fairly new here, so please help me. When I send an introductory message to a lady or couple (only after matching her/their preferences), why the silence? I can see that you’ve read my message, so please reply! If you had a look at my profile and you don’t like what you see, then please say so, at least then I know not to bother you again. I just think it’s utterly rude not to reply. Say your say, I’m a big boy, and will take no offence!

Probably because unless they are a member and have unlimited messages they only have 3 a day and they won’t waste them on someone they deem not a fit for them or not to their taste. They probably save them for those they are genuinely interested in engaging with.

It’s not about you and you’re going to be very disappointed if you expect everyone you message to revert back to you because you find it rude for them not too. Perhaps lower your expectations a little 🤏🏻 to avoid disappointment. 😉

My view .... as a single guy you have the right to be here .. anything over and above that is a bonus