I’m fairly new here, so please help me. When I send an introductory message to a lady or couple (only after matching her/their preferences), why the silence? I can see that you’ve read my message, so please reply! If you had a look at my profile and you don’t like what you see, then please say so, at least then I know not to bother you again. I just think it’s utterly rude not to reply. Say your say, I’m a big boy, and will take no offence!