Being on SH for 8 yesrs we noted that its becoming more of a dating app. More than 50% fake profiles and the rest is here to make friends not to mention the dingle ladies thats on this site and thinking its Tnder and the single men thinking its hunting season.
I wonder howmany of the SH friends you having turned into no strings attached swinging or are we tring to make braai friends
Think this is so true
Couldnt agree more...the proliferation on single profiles is astounding. And many dont seem to quite understand the swinging lifestyle, and are here because they deem this a nice and quick way to get a fuck. On top of that, many (not all - there are some stunning single ladies) of the thirst trap single lady profiles seem to be scammers out to catfish gullible guys.
Certainly, I can attest to that. I believe the traditional approach is the best way—meeting people in real life rather than online. Maybe I'm wrong; after all, it is the blight of the age.
Not sure I understand the main post.
Swinging isnt about NSA casual hookups for sex, thats simply hookup culture, not lifestyle, quite common behaviour among vanilla folks, and sort of stuff you find in locanto personals, craigslist etc, its not swinging, but certainly a big uptick here as more websites been closing off their nsa/personal sections over the past 10yrs like olx etc🤷♂️
And certainly no judgement, it can be quite good fun with positive experiences, its just that they not the same, with hookup culture, with so much exposure in TV series and whatnot, it has gained alot of traction over the last 5-10yrs.
Could not agree more, we miss the hard swing and real swing days from before Covid.
Any idea where real swingers can make REAL contacts?
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Any idea where real swingers can make REAL contacts?
Um. Hello!
HI i am new here and also want to see if there are still some reel swr's around in free state .. having some transport issues at the moment and only upgrading this coming weekend if there is still some fun people that are willing to enjoy life to the fullest!!! ❤️
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Could not agree more, we miss the hard swing and real swing days from before Covid.
Even the site was better before covid. The chat rooms were always full and busy. But I think the problem is also clubs have their own sites now.
I agree, it feels like many people and couples have lost that touch, and I honestly blame technology... Look don't get me wrong I myself enjoy viewing the gallery and seeing what couples are out there but what ever happened to casually meeting a couple on a restaurant inviting them over while you have dinner and creating a real connection instead of a virtual one. Where are the real people? I honestly think that we should look at chucking the technology and return to the days when hand shakes hello and hugs were actually real
Ek dink daar's niks mee verkeerd as SH as 'n deit-app vir swiengers fungeer nie. Dieselfde hoflikheid, bedagsaamheid en diskreetheid as in die ou dae moet egter geld. En dit beteken dat mens nie oorhaastig moet wees nie. Reël dus allereers 'n ontmoeting in 'n openbare plek – leer ken mekaar eers op 'n sosiale vlak en gaan dan oor tot bespreking van die behoeftes rondom swiengery. As alles goed klink, reël dan waar en hoe die swiengery moet plaasvind. En wees maar heeltyd bedag op die behoefte aan improvisasie. Onvoorsiene ontwikkelinge is altyd moontlik.
