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Hi all. We are excited to meet you all. 👀ing forward to some kinky encounters. Have a look at our profile and write to us.

Hot profile... sexy pics

Greetings from East London! Recently signed up, haven’t been making any connections yet. Have posted some stories. Guess I’ll hang on a bit

Any ladies in Cape town CBD or surrounding areas keen to meet up today?

Hi there people, Justin here, joined about 2 months ago. Still seeking my first experience from the site. Feel free to check out my profile and give some feedback/suggestions. Thanks for the warm welcome

Hi I am 52 just move to Cape town hope to make a lot new friends 🧡

Keen to see if this site actually produces something single females keen to joll please DM

Hi all, 22 year old indian male here, excited to get to know some new people and interact with the community, hoping to get some action out of this and dms are open ;)

Hello all. New to this site and would love to connect with others. Into roleplay and.... well guess😉

Hi any open minded couples or single ladies who would like to explore and enjoy some open minded fun let's talk

Hi i am a young male looking for a sex partner preferably someone close to my age or just under 30, looking for decent vibes and not weirdos... would be cool if you’re a female who is built decent , and i would preferably like my sex partner to be Indian

Hey lovers! Nice to be here, come wish me a warm welcome if you please

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Hey lovers! Nice to be here, come wish me a warm welcome if you please

Welcome and enjoy

Hi everyone!

I'm quite new to this site. So I'm looking to meet likeminded single ladies or couples to connect with. And even have some fun together.

I live in the Northern Suburbs of Cape Town. I see myself as a sensualist. I'm all about making the body tingle and the hairs stand on end from the sensations, body contact and massaging that eventually leads to more fun and intense things. It's all about feeling good in the moment.

Feel free to check out my profile and say hi. I really don't bite... unless you want me to 😈

Hello Cape Town

Hi julle! New on this page, but very curious. I'm an attractive (or so they say) guy, looking for fun times, because life is short and mostly uneventful. Looking for anything exiting or maybe strange! Straight sex only in any form please. Couples or singles. I can host with a firepit and jacuzzi.........................sien uit om te hoor van julle

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36f Capetown clrd new and need to have awesome sex

Hi there sexy lady let us do what we came here for and enjoy each other like we should😜😘 im waiting on you

Hi, I am new to this lifestyle although my partner has been in it before.

We are looking forward too meeting like minded people who aren't afraid of a little bdsm...

We are interested in other couples who are just excited about us in finding pleasures through our bodies with new experiences.

Heya all, new to SH still trying to find my feet within the lifestyle. Been to a few clubs and found many awesome people, thought maybe I would try extend myself into this area, was actually recommended to try jump onto here. looking forward to meeting awesome new people, learning new things and hoping we can teach and grow together. Lets have fun and have ablast! smile

Good day all, I am new here and not sure how things work yet. I have done my profile as well as I thought would be good but please let me know if I need something else. It would also be nice if I can find someone in my area (Centurion) to do acceptable photos of me for the site.

Hi, also new here. Looking for hookups or exciting things!

Hi everyone, mainly looking for woman between ages 18 - 45, keen to try anything. I am a fit white 21 year old looking to help out the women in need of a decent erotic orgasm, whether it be public fun or private I’m ready stick my dick in any of your holes and if you want anything extra I’m 6’4 and have big hand for some gentle teasing or rough pussy play. I’m ready and waiting to pump my young cum deep inside and females on this app. If your boyfriend/husband wants to watch then let him but I’m only interested in women. Enjoy the rest of your day and I hope I’ll be hearing from you

Hi am male in Nigel, looking for a female to have fun any age

🌶️ Our Real-Life Swinging Journey: 8 Years Later

We started exploring the lifestyle in December 2017 — back when I was 38 & Mrs_E was 28.

Fast-forward 8 years, and our comfort levels, confidence, and sexual energy have grown immensely. 💥🔥

But… life doesn’t stay the same forever. And neither does swinging. 😉

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 The Kid Factor- The Ultimate Cock-Blockers 😂)

When we started, our kids were tiny — 6 and 3.

Now they’re 14 and 11, smart, aware, and everywhere. 😅

Dropping them at grandparents used to be easy…

Now it’s a logistical nightmare.

Mrs_E's parents are 8 years older 🧓

Our daughter loves going there, our son… not so much 🤷‍♂️

My parents now live with us (thanks to medical boarding and insufficient retirement savings) 🏡

Hosting midweek or last-minute? Basically Mission Impossible 🎬💣

💸 Time, Budgets and Responsibilities-

Aside from family logistics, our son plays good rugby, which comes with travel, costs, and tight schedules. 🏉⏳

So both budget and time get stretched more than Mrs_E's legs on date night 😈🤣

🔥 Our Current Rhythm (Realistic but Still Sexy)

We manage about one planned lifestyle outing a month — club, hotel, or trusted swinger friends.

We love hosting (Swaai+Braai = perfection 😜🔥)…

But it now requires:

👉 Moving kids + parents for a whole weekend

👉 Planning ahead

👉 A small miracle

So it happens… just not often.

💃🕺 Our Vibe vs. Lifestyle Age Gaps-

We’re still younger than the lifestyle average.

Most couples we meet are in their late 40's or 50's — sometimes amazing.......sometimes an energy, interest and attraction mismatch.

Younger couples?

We love the vibe, that they can keep up with our sexual energy or party spirit, but they are often not sensitive to the fact that couples with teens need to plan in advance . They often have trust issues. Men in their 20' are alo often disappointing due to a lack of experience🍻⚡

We’re basically:

Young enough to be fun, old enough to know what we want, and horny enough to make it count. 😈🔥

🎉 The Short Version-

We’re a real couple with real life happening around us — kids, parents, sport, money, responsibilities —

but we still absolutely love a good braai, a good party, and great sex. 😜🔥

If you’re younger, fun, and understand that planning is part of the package…

then we’re the couple who will make your night unforgettable and possibly teach you a thing or two 😈💦💋 If you are between 35-45 and have the energy of a 20-something, you are our perfect match.💫🥂🔥

*When we do entertain single members , we prefer it if they are infact single- and not cheating on their spouse(no drama please).

Hi everyone. My partner and I love it when people watch us or when we watch. My wife and I are interested in cuckold however we also like to watch people masturbate to when we fuck over cam. We also looking for couples or singles to swap naughty pictures and videos.

Hi all, new to this site and still learning about the lifestyle.