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Size does count lol
Orgasminator
I saw that, apparently I don't fit in with my fellow south Africans based on that. 
Well look what I found guys:
This is an answer of a site I frequent:
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Question:
What is the ideal size of a penis?
And how can you increase its size?
Answer by:
Marvin Powell, technically male.
I actually did a lot of self-research on this myself about a year ago in 2013. Watched a lot of YouTube videos and Googled a lot of articles.
(I'll prefix this right away with a "no homo." I am sexually not into penises, at all. Understood? Good.)
If you're a man, you'll know it can sometimes be like pulling teeth to get a straight answer out of a woman. While its true "size does matter," this doesn't automatically mean "bigger is better." From what I learned, penises that are too big will hurt the woman and hit their cervix. It is said to be a painful experience and men who are eight inches and over will have to re-position themselves and do a lot of tricky maneuvering in order to have sex without hurting her. So "too big" actually does exist with most women, and its usually eight or more inches. Of course, a select few will be into this. They are "sizequeens."
Of course, if you're a man, you'll also know a "too small" exists, as well. Some women may often try to tell you there is no "too small," but this is bullshit! I'll save you a lot of detail and just tell you now. Too small is anything under 4.5 inches. Most women's vaginas are four inches deep, on average. Sometimes, maybe up to five inches deep, if she's really big or really tall, like 5'11" or bigger. Women apparently prefer a man who can "fill her up" and still leave a bit a room inside her.
So, the definitive answer? Most women want a man between 5 and 7.5 inches long. Many women have said that the absolute "perfect" size is 7.5 inches, but they also have said that the size isn't the most important thing.
Yes, anything under five inches is too tiny and anything over eight inches will be too big for most women who aren't Amazons. But guess what? Most men in the world fall into this range! A good 75% of men.
The average penis size is between 5 and 6.5 inches long, depending on ethnicity. So the true average among all men is inches.
I'll just go ahead and reveal those ethnicities as well, since you're likely curious. 5" if you're Asian or Indian, 5.5" if White or European, 6" if Hispanic or South American, and 6.5" if you're Black or African. Though it should be stated, between most men of the same area, the sizes are minimal in difference, and often only a half inch apart by race. Meaning, in other words, this is more by country and region than simply race, alone.
Also, height, weight, and shoe size has nothing to do with penis size. A 6'3", 250 pound man can be 4.5 inches and a 5'7", 140 pound man can be 9 inches! And flaccid sizes can wildly vary. A circumcised man has an average flaccid length of 3.5", but there is no way at all to tell how large a man's penis will be by flaccid size. Some men have "The Hulk" going for them, and can be a flaccid 2", but can "hulk up" into an 8 or 9" monster. So flaccid penis size and length is irrelevant.
Girth is a big factor, as well. Many men forget about this. Girth (aka circumference) is how thick the penis is. To many women, it is a more important factor than length.
Human penis size (Warning! Contains dick pictures!)
The average circumference of a penis is between 4.5 inches and 5 inches. Girth size is a lot more rare in variation than length. Meaning anything over 5 inches in girth is something to be very proud of! 6 inches in girth is about as respectable among women as 8 or 9 inches in length is to men. However, at 6.5 inches and over, the girth will be too much for most women to handle, the same as 8 and above inches is in length for most women. 5.5 to 6 inches is what women most prefer in girth and anything above that is her just asking for trouble.
Okay, so now you know. 7.5" is the perfect length and 6" is the perfect girth. However...
When you actually talk to most women, they will tell you that in the real world, a man with a large or even "perfect" 7.5" penis size is not what they actually want! Believe it or not, most women say their absolute best sexual partners were with men who they felt were a good size, but the man felt were too small. These were men who were between 5 and 6.5 inches long. As in, most of us! Especially if these men watch porn, which can give unrealistic standards for penis size. Which is why a man with 6" or 6.5" can feel really small; they're used to seeing 8" and 9" and start to subconsciously think of that as the "standard." There is a reason most of us couldn't be male porn stars.
The reasoning men who were too big, such as 7" to 8" and above, were not good in bed according to women is, 1) they hurt them, 2) they were selfish lovers, and 3) they felt they could rely on their size too much. Where as men who 5" to 6" were 1) feeling inadequate about their relative (to porn stars) small penis, 2) tried much, much harder to compensate for this because of it, and 3) were biologically the best fit for the women. Remember, the vagina is only 4" to 5" deep. Women want to be nearly filled, but still have some wiggle room inside them.
In other words, size didn't matter to these women! It was all about effort and knowing how to use it and the desire to please the woman! Ironically, men who feel like they are small are most often the absolute best lovers, according to women. There is no size ego and therefore, they go all in to ensure the woman will be happy and satisfied. Some know how to use their hands well or perform fantastic cunnilingus, but most all of the men who feel inadequate with their size will do great foreplay on top of the full effort in penetration. After all, no man wants to be known as being bad in bed. That pretty much will kill any man's masculinity right then and there, assuming she doesn't even tell anyone about it. No man wants to be known as being bad in bed!
So men who feel small will give it their all! Even though to the woman, the saying goes "a penis is a penis." To a woman, if she's agreeing to have sex with you, she's not going to care what the size of it is. The only thing that will matter is afterwards, if you didn't give her what she needed.
I personally have experienced the feeling of penis insecurity. I've often felt way too small, myself. So I always went all out in bed, putting her pleasure beyond my own. The sex was for her, not me. And after it was over, I just wanted to know I put my best effort in. I never assumed I did well, but just did the best I could. It was only until much later, after the deed, did the women reveal to me that I was "fantastic" in bed. (Of course, I'm a perfectionist, so anything less than an A+ and "perfect job" confirmation still isn't good enough for me.) And just to put it all out there, I myself am 6" L, and " G (aka, "The Banana"), in case you think I'm lying or being biased. If I was lying, I wouldn't lie about those numbers! They'd be much higher, even after everything I said.
So, there ya go. Those are all the numbers, but at the end of the day, it all comes down to technique, passion, effort, and how much you love your partner. Size does matter, but as long as you're bigger than 4.5 and smaller than 8 (which is most men), its mostly irrelevant to the majority of women. And to lesbians, its 100% irrelevant.
As for increasing its size? I don't know, man. I heard a rumor that masturbation can increase it up to one inch over a couple years time. Also, losing weight, so your stomach and crotch will be flat, thereby making it look bigger. But if you ask a girl, she probably won't care.
This is an answer of a site I frequent:
***
Question:
What is the ideal size of a penis?
And how can you increase its size?
Answer by:
Marvin Powell, technically male.
I actually did a lot of self-research on this myself about a year ago in 2013. Watched a lot of YouTube videos and Googled a lot of articles.
(I'll prefix this right away with a "no homo." I am sexually not into penises, at all. Understood? Good.)
If you're a man, you'll know it can sometimes be like pulling teeth to get a straight answer out of a woman. While its true "size does matter," this doesn't automatically mean "bigger is better." From what I learned, penises that are too big will hurt the woman and hit their cervix. It is said to be a painful experience and men who are eight inches and over will have to re-position themselves and do a lot of tricky maneuvering in order to have sex without hurting her. So "too big" actually does exist with most women, and its usually eight or more inches. Of course, a select few will be into this. They are "sizequeens."
Of course, if you're a man, you'll also know a "too small" exists, as well. Some women may often try to tell you there is no "too small," but this is bullshit! I'll save you a lot of detail and just tell you now. Too small is anything under 4.5 inches. Most women's vaginas are four inches deep, on average. Sometimes, maybe up to five inches deep, if she's really big or really tall, like 5'11" or bigger. Women apparently prefer a man who can "fill her up" and still leave a bit a room inside her.
So, the definitive answer? Most women want a man between 5 and 7.5 inches long. Many women have said that the absolute "perfect" size is 7.5 inches, but they also have said that the size isn't the most important thing.
Yes, anything under five inches is too tiny and anything over eight inches will be too big for most women who aren't Amazons. But guess what? Most men in the world fall into this range! A good 75% of men.
The average penis size is between 5 and 6.5 inches long, depending on ethnicity. So the true average among all men is inches.
I'll just go ahead and reveal those ethnicities as well, since you're likely curious. 5" if you're Asian or Indian, 5.5" if White or European, 6" if Hispanic or South American, and 6.5" if you're Black or African. Though it should be stated, between most men of the same area, the sizes are minimal in difference, and often only a half inch apart by race. Meaning, in other words, this is more by country and region than simply race, alone.
Also, height, weight, and shoe size has nothing to do with penis size. A 6'3", 250 pound man can be 4.5 inches and a 5'7", 140 pound man can be 9 inches! And flaccid sizes can wildly vary. A circumcised man has an average flaccid length of 3.5", but there is no way at all to tell how large a man's penis will be by flaccid size. Some men have "The Hulk" going for them, and can be a flaccid 2", but can "hulk up" into an 8 or 9" monster. So flaccid penis size and length is irrelevant.
Girth is a big factor, as well. Many men forget about this. Girth (aka circumference) is how thick the penis is. To many women, it is a more important factor than length.
Human penis size (Warning! Contains dick pictures!)
The average circumference of a penis is between 4.5 inches and 5 inches. Girth size is a lot more rare in variation than length. Meaning anything over 5 inches in girth is something to be very proud of! 6 inches in girth is about as respectable among women as 8 or 9 inches in length is to men. However, at 6.5 inches and over, the girth will be too much for most women to handle, the same as 8 and above inches is in length for most women. 5.5 to 6 inches is what women most prefer in girth and anything above that is her just asking for trouble.
Okay, so now you know. 7.5" is the perfect length and 6" is the perfect girth. However...
When you actually talk to most women, they will tell you that in the real world, a man with a large or even "perfect" 7.5" penis size is not what they actually want! Believe it or not, most women say their absolute best sexual partners were with men who they felt were a good size, but the man felt were too small. These were men who were between 5 and 6.5 inches long. As in, most of us! Especially if these men watch porn, which can give unrealistic standards for penis size. Which is why a man with 6" or 6.5" can feel really small; they're used to seeing 8" and 9" and start to subconsciously think of that as the "standard." There is a reason most of us couldn't be male porn stars.
The reasoning men who were too big, such as 7" to 8" and above, were not good in bed according to women is, 1) they hurt them, 2) they were selfish lovers, and 3) they felt they could rely on their size too much. Where as men who 5" to 6" were 1) feeling inadequate about their relative (to porn stars) small penis, 2) tried much, much harder to compensate for this because of it, and 3) were biologically the best fit for the women. Remember, the vagina is only 4" to 5" deep. Women want to be nearly filled, but still have some wiggle room inside them.
In other words, size didn't matter to these women! It was all about effort and knowing how to use it and the desire to please the woman! Ironically, men who feel like they are small are most often the absolute best lovers, according to women. There is no size ego and therefore, they go all in to ensure the woman will be happy and satisfied. Some know how to use their hands well or perform fantastic cunnilingus, but most all of the men who feel inadequate with their size will do great foreplay on top of the full effort in penetration. After all, no man wants to be known as being bad in bed. That pretty much will kill any man's masculinity right then and there, assuming she doesn't even tell anyone about it. No man wants to be known as being bad in bed!
So men who feel small will give it their all! Even though to the woman, the saying goes "a penis is a penis." To a woman, if she's agreeing to have sex with you, she's not going to care what the size of it is. The only thing that will matter is afterwards, if you didn't give her what she needed.
I personally have experienced the feeling of penis insecurity. I've often felt way too small, myself. So I always went all out in bed, putting her pleasure beyond my own. The sex was for her, not me. And after it was over, I just wanted to know I put my best effort in. I never assumed I did well, but just did the best I could. It was only until much later, after the deed, did the women reveal to me that I was "fantastic" in bed. (Of course, I'm a perfectionist, so anything less than an A+ and "perfect job" confirmation still isn't good enough for me.) And just to put it all out there, I myself am 6" L, and " G (aka, "The Banana"), in case you think I'm lying or being biased. If I was lying, I wouldn't lie about those numbers! They'd be much higher, even after everything I said.
So, there ya go. Those are all the numbers, but at the end of the day, it all comes down to technique, passion, effort, and how much you love your partner. Size does matter, but as long as you're bigger than 4.5 and smaller than 8 (which is most men), its mostly irrelevant to the majority of women. And to lesbians, its 100% irrelevant.
As for increasing its size? I don't know, man. I heard a rumor that masturbation can increase it up to one inch over a couple years time. Also, losing weight, so your stomach and crotch will be flat, thereby making it look bigger. But if you ask a girl, she probably won't care.
Orgasminator
Awesome article LeeEC. Fyi I'm a 7 L and 5.5 G ladies 
