Thoughts on how to deal with guy's/couples who ask to view your private folder, within 2 lines of conversation.
Or starting a conversation with dick pics.
Does anyone else find this off putting or is it just me?
Personally I hate both, dick pics straight away very off putting.
Asking for private pictures, picture hunters for sure.
I manage our couple's profile as my wife has no interest in social media. Similar issues. A dick in my eye when open a mail or message in the pool. Only share pics with those who have spent getting time to know you. The guys in a hurry can download pics without the hassle.
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Thoughts on how to deal with guy's/couples who ask to view your private folder, within 2 lines of conversation.
Or starting a conversation with dick pics.
Does anyone else find this off putting or is it just me?
its not just you, you are on the right track, these guys actually make it easier for you to eliminate upfront, and make it just as hard for the real ones, i like what you mention in your profile, build a repoire and take it from there, now that is building or establishing a connection,
I've never understood the strategy of sending ladies and/or couples a dick
pick as a conversation starter.
What immediately comes to mind is that every guy has one, so right off the
bat you're not differentiating yourself from others on that front. Also,
unless you have outlier-type length or girth, you are not going to set
yourself apart from the others either - unless you are on the small side,
and that you don't want to advertise anyway.
Come to think of it, having a super large or thick tool may set you apart,
but it may just count against you as the larger members can be
uncomfortable and even painful for the ladies - and the husband may feel
he's not willing to have the comparison made….
Furthermore, the visuals just aren't what gets the ladies going (not like
us guys, show us a pair of titties and we're switched on immediately).
Wit, charm, manners, conversation, those things need to land first, then
she'd be happy to see the goods (and she'll let you know). Frankly, if
you're expecting her to get wet and horny from seeing a pic of your
probably-average dick, you're really expecting a typically-male sexual
response, and that, I'm sure many would agree, sounds just a little bit
gay….
Dicks a dicks a dicks a dick. Frankly once you’ve seen a dozen there are no new surprises. So dick pics don’t even upset me anymore. What pisses me off is the entitlement some men have of demanding access to my private folder or nudes. A lack of manners and rudeness is so off putting and irritates the fuck out of me. 🙄
Had a guy message me yesterday and say “show me a pussy” I replied with “look in the mirror”. Curiously enough he did not message again 😂😏 bad manners gets old quickly.
Every morning when I jump on here I get at least 5 dick pics from some guy who wants to suck me off or something. I don’t even reply back. It’s not worth my time and effort. I just Block or ignore them. Then you get guys that will ask you 2 days later if I have changed my mind yet. WTF dude!!!!
Point is (My rule). You don’t ask for a p…y pic and most importantly, you don’t ask for an invite to their Private Album. That’s why it’s call Private Album. The Couple or Lady will share this with you if they feel comfortable to do so.
I am probably stupid or slow but when see some of the Private Albums that’s on here. There is Nothing left for the imagination or the build up until you meet them.
Sorry but that’s my 2c on this.
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Every morning when I jump on here I get at least 5 dick pics from some guy who wants to suck me off or something. I don’t even reply back. It’s not worth my time and effort. I just Block or ignore them. Then you get guys that will ask you 2 days later if I have changed my mind yet. WTF dude!!!!
Point is (My rule). You don’t ask for a p…y pic and most importantly, you don’t ask for an invite to their Private Album. That’s why it’s call Private Album. The Couple or Lady will share this with you if they feel comfortable to do so.
I am probably stupid or slow but when see some of the Private Albums that’s on here. There is Nothing left for the imagination or the build up until you meet them.
Sorry but that’s my 2c on this.
Go to your privacy settings and then look for the button that says "allow contact from..." and then unclick the "males" button, you will never receive a message from any male ever again unless you enable that privacy setting again.
