Meeting People Strike Rate

Hi there. We are a couple that is new to all this and we are keen to meet up for casual drinks with other couples. We want to manage our expectations though because we've heard that a lot of times people are a no-show. So we would like to ask the people with a bit more experience that us, how often do that happen? Lets say you set up 10 meetings, how many of them will actually pitch? We know its not an exact science . Yet hearing from people who have been down that road will help us to know what to expect. Thanks!

For fun i will try and make a poll...

Your poll is good but you should have set it up in %'s.  We'd say more than 90 % of your meeting end up with people showing up. Reason could be that we set it up at our place and make it clear before hand that we do not do the meet and greet thingy, if we like your profile we decide to play with you before setting up a play session. 

More than 90% show up, of those that show up we play with more than 90 %

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More than 90% show up, of those that show up we play with more than 90 %

 Well said!

I think a 100% strike rate is bulshit

Been around awhile and met and played with many but not 100%

Our experience with couples has been mostly frustrating. 

We've only successfully met up with one couple. All the others have gone silent when we ask to meet, or don't show up. One had a really good reason for not showing up, but we haven't heard from them since....so....

We haven't had luck with single ladies. They seem to disappear when we try to arrange a meet,or they stand us up too...

Single guys, we'd say that 1/4 don't show. The rest at least show up for the meet!

Sounds like one up to the single guys for something at last!!  ;-)

@RedBruce yes hahaha!
Considering how seldom we actually have time for meets, it is really appreciated when people actually show up!
And this far, single guys definitely are much better at showing up for meets than any other category

We have a sad joke among our friends: When we meet a new person/couple, we like to choose the venue. At least then we can have coffee in each others' company when the other people decide not to show up...

I agree with all you guys. Normally what happens is that you chat with a couple or single lady for a few weeks and as soon as you mention to meet they go silent. Some agree to meet but don't pitch. 

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I agree with all you guys. Normally what happens is that you chat with a couple or single lady for a few weeks and as soon as you mention to meet they go silent. Some agree to meet but don't pitch. 

 Yup, pretty much our experience..

my experience is that woman get cold feet when its time to meet...dont blame them really ..that first meet can be very difficult....you are basically deciding if you want to have sex with someone

Couples are difficult, to many people that have to agree

Threesome better, only my wife has to gree