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I love kissing. In fact, I think the Kissing is more erotic and enjoyable for me than penetration. I take it serious 😂.

But I'm curious to know whether the feelings kissing rouse in me are the same for others? Especially men?

A really really good kiss has me wet and bothered for days after. I spend hours thinking about it, fantasizing about it and the person. I become lust drunk/lusty loved up. I want to talk to the kisser and love up on them and do more kissing.

Does anyone else get this worked up about it? Or am I strange 🤔 😂?

You're not strange at all....I feel similar...weirdly enough. I am told that I am good at it but that's because I really enjoy kissing. I can have a good time kissing someone and we can both still have our clothes on. It doesn't feel the same with someone who doesn't enjoy it equally....

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You're not strange at all....I feel similar...weirdly enough. I am told that I am good at it but that's because I really enjoy kissing. I can have a good time kissing someone and we can both still have our clothes on. It doesn't feel the same with someone who doesn't enjoy it equally....

Oooh but do you go home and play the kissing over and over in your head after 😛

I actually enjoy kissing a lot as well, (have had a few compliments) Some kisses can be better than sex when it is enjoyed both ways

Believe it or not some people has a no kissing rule, something we have respected in the past but never really understood.

Kissing is where it's at , nothing gets the endorphins flowing like a good kiss . Don't think it's weird to linger on the memory of a good kiss, Do of course think its a little weird to deny yourself the pleasure.

I agree, kissing is what makes the chemistry work. It makes you a little hot under the collar and your body to tingle.

Ithink it feels weird when people impose a no kissing rule. I feel that something important is missing, but to each their own.

Kissing makes my Cock harder....all I will say.

Kissing is a must makes for good foreplay must agree that a good kiss can start something hot we also had plays with couples who have this rule of no kiss and we do respect it but for us we do like kiss and enjoy it

It's all in a long sensual kiss...

Kissing while getting caught up in the moment... is everything for me too. I think so people don’t like kissing because they don’t know how to switch it off when its time to say goodbye and see you same time next week..

And I get it, it’s hard, because sometimes other feelings or emotions creep in. But honestly without kissing, the whole experience is missing that something, something.

Kissing is most definitely the first step to an erotic adventure . If you get tje right kiss in , all tje rest will just flow naturally

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Kissing is most definitely the first step to an erotic adventure . If you get tje right kiss in , all tje rest will just flow naturally

See I agree if you get that first kiss right it could be a mind blowing experience but if you don't it could kill the mood even if you wer turned on before the kiss

ooof top true 😭🤣. and I think it's one of the worst things to happen when the kiss is so off putting when you were excited for it and what comes next

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ooof top true 😭🤣. and I think it's one of the worst things to happen when the kiss is so off putting when you were excited for it and what comes next

But also on the other side of that first kiss is good then I am yours do to what you want with I become a waterfall wer it matters

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See I agree if you get that first kiss right it could be a mind blowing experience but if you don't it could kill the mood even if you wer turned on before the kiss

Agreed, hence why I make sure my kissings skills are up there 😈😈😈

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ooof top true 😭🤣. and I think it's one of the worst things to happen when the kiss is so off putting when you were excited for it and what comes next

A good teacher once told me if at first you don't succeed , try again. So Im open to try that kiss over and over and over and over again until its just perfect 😘

I don't deny anyone the right to have their boundaries. The "no kissing" rule is one that I would struggle with. Kissing is one of the first acts of foreplay for me. Can't have a great meal without a good starter...

We think we are great kissers.

We've been told we're great kissers

But what makes a good kiss?

Like, do the people we don't enjoy kissing think WE are bad kissers too?

I totally concur with you! These are my opinions and experiences as I find kissing significantly more intimate than penetration. Kissing for me only happens when the moment transitions from purely sexual to extremely erotic, and the entire dynamic shifts to include emotion. I personally find this enhances the physical because we are connecting on multiple frequencies.

I will say that the build up to that moment is critical, and a full on frechie may be unpleasant without the cues. (Think that nuzzling on your neck, the gentle nibble on your ear, or that intentional brushing of your lips against one another). For me a kiss requires mutual yearning to intensify arousal as things are fucking amazing...

However I've also experienced the most passionate kiss the moment I stepped through the door while fully clothed, this I feel requires a particular type of desire to take charge and control. (No complaints from me!)

I respect certain couples having this "no kissing rule" for me indicates they may still not completely comfortable with their own sexual dynamic which to be fair is constantly evolving OR they've had some terrible experiences regarding oral hygiene.

In conclusion, Yes kissing is amazing but not strictly required for an ultimate play date...🫦

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I love kissing. In fact, I think the Kissing is more erotic and enjoyable for me than penetration. I take it serious 😂.

But I'm curious to know whether the feelings kissing rouse in me are the same for others? Especially men?

A really really good kiss has me wet and bothered for days after. I spend hours thinking about it, fantasizing about it and the person. I become lust drunk/lusty loved up. I want to talk to the kisser and love up on them and do more kissing.

Does anyone else get this worked up about it? Or am I strange 🤔 😂?

You not alone

So are an easy going couple with not many Hangups. We are open minded and there are not many things that we are completely against doing ... besides Kissing!

That is something that my wife and I will only do with each other and won't even try it with others.... Sounds Stupid but it's our thing!

Also we are in this lifestyle only for sexual pleasure. We are not in to Gentle Lovemaking, that is something we feel is for people that are emotionally involved.

I think kissing is very intimate...

Hmm true! Always good to have the other view 🌞. Kissing is Very intimate

Kissing is intimate - but few people seem to get it right in my experience...


When you find that person that kisses you just the way your sensory model works - its wow!
I like a soft gentle flutter touch that develops into a softer play of kisses, nibbles, and tongue.

Teasing and intense ... its a complex melody and fulfilling to the core when its done right!

Kissing can be amazing if done well or it can be similar to a Boerbull slobbering on you if not but it’s something I enjoy so much and when you kiss well and kiss in a way that makes every sane thought leave my head I can be persuaded to forget my own rules and to be a lady. 😈 A simple “goodbye and thanks for the date” can turn into a moment of insanity where you both forget you’re in public and have eyes on you 🤭 and that’s what makes the heart pump a little faster and breath quickens

Deliciously addictive if done well and as many have said, often more is required to satisfy my lips 🫦

Soft kisses are sweet and fun but having someone get caught up in the moment with you unexpectedly and suddenly you find yourself pressed against a car and fighting for your own sanity to return is intensely passionate and all I want is more more more in those moments. 🔥

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Kissing can be amazing if done well or it can be similar to a Boerbull slobbering on you if not but it’s something I enjoy so much and when you kiss well and kiss in a way that makes every sane thought leave my head I can be persuaded to forget my own rules and to be a lady. 😈 A simple “goodbye and thanks for the date” can turn into a moment of insanity where you both forget you’re in public and have eyes on you 🤭 and that’s what makes the heart pump a little faster and breath quickens

Deliciously addictive if done well and as many have said, often more is required to satisfy my lips 🫦

Soft kisses are sweet and fun but having someone get caught up in the moment with you unexpectedly and suddenly you find yourself pressed against a car and fighting for your own sanity to return is intensely passionate and all I want is more more more in those moments. 🔥

Dam . Should take you on a date and see if I can audition for that good bye kiss