We've all encountered the last-minute cancellation. What's the strangest cancellation excuse someone gave you. Mine was a team building that the person forgot about an hour before we were supposed to meet. I also got it's my mom's birthday and we having a last minute supper. Please note this is not a name and shame post. Just curious to find out what excuses you received
The worst kind is the ones who disappear whilst you are waiting at the arranged pub. Phone is off. No explanation. Gone. Never hear from them again. Probably blocked them.
I always wonder if they got to the door, saw us and then got cold feet, or if they never even left their house...
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The worst kind is the ones who disappear whilst you are waiting at the arranged pub. Phone is off. No explanation. Gone. Never hear from them again. Probably blocked them.
I always wonder if they got to the door, saw us and then got cold feet, or if they never even left their house...
Surely not. One look at you and I would be right in.
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Surely not. One look at you and I would be right in.
It's probably the ones who "has this fantasy", but they lack the courage to perform, so they never actually meet anyone. But they are also usually the ones that complain about "nobody wanting to meet up" 😆
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The worst kind is the ones who disappear whilst you are waiting at the arranged pub. Phone is off. No explanation. Gone. Never hear from them again. Probably blocked them.
I always wonder if they got to the door, saw us and then got cold feet, or if they never even left their house...
It enrages us! Why not just say (or realise) they don’t have the courage to meet? Happens far too often to members on here. I think SH should block peeps reported doing this… how about?
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It enrages us! Why not just say (or realise) they don’t have the courage to meet? Happens far too often to members on here. I think SH should block peeps reported doing this… how about?
Unfortunately it gets misused for revenge, so they don't allow it.
The adage of the dog chasing the car rings true. What does the dog do if he actually catches the car? I reckon it is the same for some people. They have been talking or fantasizing for a long time about meeting other couples or singles, and then they actually land a meeting. What now? You have to go meet them and they might want to meet again for sex? Run!!! Either that or mommy doesn't know what you are doing... Experienced that.
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It enrages us! Why not just say (or realise) they don’t have the courage to meet? Happens far too often to members on here. I think SH should block peeps reported doing this… how about?
As the Cheeky one said, it can be used unfairly. Another site we used to be on had a profile upvote and downvote option. If someone didn't like your profile or they are part of a cohort that was not what you were looking for (sexual orientation, couple, single, whatever), you could be treated to a downvote from someone you have never communicated with before. Rather keep it positive.
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Given your vouches, it is hard to imagine someone would just not pitch up.
It's because people are not being truthful and then cannot present what they have advertised. It has happened to us many times in the past.
My honest opinion is that it's a blessing in disguise. That guy probably wouldn't be able to perform anyway 😄
For those of us living in the countryside, it’s very difficult. We have to book a place to stay overnight, arrange a babysitter, drive 80 to 100 km, and pay toll fees—not to mention the restaurant reservation. Then, while you’re sitting there waiting, the person cancels. Once you’re back home, you realize that the last 12 hours have cost you R5,000—and that just makes you angry
