Okay let me see if I can try can do some mouth to mouth here. Breath some life here.
This is going to be a question which I need some answers to. Please
Right here we go. I would say my wife and I have a really active sex life. Meaning we have sex at least 5 to 6 times a week. And it is great, but every year and this is like clock work there cames a time where there is just about no sex. It is like maybe once in two weeks. It is not that we are board with one another. Or that we are having sex with other people. We dont even want to have sex with other people. :sad: :sad: The only way I can describe it is like you have just had a big plat of food and now you are just not hungry.
Now the questions come. Please note I say Questions with a S.
Is it that we over do it when we are on the ball again?
Is it old age?
Is it stress?
Or is it that we do not use something to make us horny?
Or is it me when she wants it the man does not want to stand up and when I want it then she is too tired. In other words the timing sucks.
So who can give me some answers. Or does this also happen to other people. As I did read the one of the other cpls are also not meeting people now. Are they also going throw something like this?
Joyrider
I want it but nothing happens. :sad: :sad:
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Is this normal?
Girls have moods and boys have missions that distract them from their sex lives...
Usually the one not distracted can re-inspire or refocus the one that is.
Sometimes the distractions coincide and we get of the rhythm, or out of sync, or more our distractions have synced and so we are both being pulled away from each other at the small time.
No biggie, it's completely normal. Sometimes our bodies need some downtime too.
And not to worry, when you've had enough downtime and if you are talking to each other effectively, the first one who has had enough can say to the other "hey babe, I think we've neglected 'sexy' lately! Time to spice things up a bit, don't you think?"
And in no time you'll be swinging from the chandeliers and ordering extra larger pump action bottles of lube again!
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And in no time you'll be swinging from the chandeliers and ordering extra larger pump action bottles of lube again!
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Now the questions come. Please note I say Questions with a S.
Is it that we over do it when we are on the ball again?
Is it old age?
Is it stress?
Or is it that we do not use something to make us horny?
Or is it me when she wants it the man does not want to stand up and when I want it then she is too tired. In other words the timing sucks.
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Joyrider
I want it but nothing happens. :sad: :sad:
It's not just one item, combination of all - sometimes one stands out more than others
But definitely have to work on ways to increase 'horny-ness', because its the BEST 'electricity' to level and normalise stressful situations and just get your smile back on the dial!!
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Now the questions come. Please note I say Questions with a S.
Is it that we over do it when we are on the ball again?
Is it old age?
Is it stress?
Or is it that we do not use something to make us horny?
Or is it me when she wants it the man does not want to stand up and when I want it then she is too tired. In other words the timing sucks.
So who can give me some answers. Or does this also happen to other people. As I did read the one of the other cpls are also not meeting people now. Are they also going throw something like this?
Joyrider
I want it but nothing happens. :sad: :sad:
The simple answer to all your questions is YES (first let me clarify before I get hanged)this is in my opinion and with what I have experienced and discussed with other people))
Although it is not always the easiest thing to do, if you can manage to not stress about things like this they generally tend to pass quite quickly and mostly unnoticed. For me, stress is the single biggest passion killer, so stressing about stress is not clever now is it?
@ Joyrider, you guy's seem to have the perfect relationship, and the fact that you know this happens to you and also know it passes is reason enough to not be too concerned about it.
all couples that are together long enough go through stages where they are out of sync with each other, trick to staying together is just to stay together till yo back in sync as for interest, wee all get distracted by something, ranging from weather all the way to work stress or just a bad supper
