Is it hate or it's just personal preference (Racial Barriers)

Where is it too much for the lifestyle this racial barriers?

Have your say and feel free let's talk about it openly so

Personally it's every body choice or preference and not about racial barriers.

It's the same that some people prefer Lamb and not chicken. Ultimately it's everyone's you don't like it move on.

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Where is it too much for the lifestyle this racial barriers?

Have your say and feel free let's talk about it openly so

You say "have your say" .... thing is, this has been raised multiple times over the years in the forum, yet there are some members who simply refuse to accept the concept of choice. And if anybody posts "their say" they get hammered from all directions.

Granted, there are of course those members who . . . . Oh why bother, people will think as they will

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Personally it's every body choice or preference and not about racial barriers.

It's the same that some people prefer Lamb and not chicken. Ultimately it's everyone's you don't like it move on.

Once you start to compare people with chickens it's other thing too.

Everyone choice must be respected fully but let your choices disturb or be problem to others and be consider as how you treat others then you'll be treated too.

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You say "have your say" .... thing is, this has been raised multiple times over the years in the forum, yet there are some members who simply refuse to accept the concept of choice. And if anybody posts "their say" they get hammered from all directions.

Granted, there are of course those members who . . . . Oh why bother, people will think as they will

I think it should be raised each and everyday for other to respect other people choice's and let other people's choice's don't stop others from being themselves too.

Awareness to both parties 💯👌🏾

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You say "have your say" .... thing is, this has been raised multiple times over the years in the forum, yet there are some members who simply refuse to accept the concept of choice. And if anybody posts "their say" they get hammered from all directions.

Granted, there are of course those members who . . . . Oh why bother, people will think as they will

When people start to put labels on it e.g when someone approaches you respectful wanna know what you're Into and you start to throw insults and labels yet you find your partner approach them first.

Or maybe they should their own site where is "Racial barriers swingers only" ?

You compliment you get insulted or you approached by lady you respond the partner throw race card.

Well for us it is how you respect people. It is a choice. And if you are approached by a person that is not your choice, you can with respect decline and move on. People are on this site for their own reasons. For us we are here to experience and to have fun.

Definitely I'm with you there treat others with respect and be respected too.

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Well for us it is how you respect people. It is a choice. And if you are approached by a person that is not your choice, you can with respect decline and move on. People are on this site for their own reasons. For us we are here to experience and to have fun.

That's great to hear that respect in everything. Everyone has choice. At the end of it all it's all about having fun. You're taking a great to this lifestyle. Thanks for such great awareness to others with what you're sharing with us.

The bottom line is. Respect everyone preferences and move is your personal preference and has nothing to do about races. If you don't like it move on to other sites that has racial preferences.

If I want to have a good time with any other race it's my choice if refused accept it and move on. Don't make this site an racial issue as we don't need it.

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The bottom line is. Respect everyone preferences and move is your personal preference and has nothing to do about races. If you don't like it move on to other sites that has racial preferences.

If I want to have a good time with any other race it's my choice if refused accept it and move on. Don't make this site an racial issue as we don't need it.

Luv making if you can't engage in subject please feel free to keep quiet than accuse me of turning this site into racial issues. Please 🙏🏾with all due respect don't do that

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Luv making if you can't engage in subject please feel free to keep quiet than accuse me of turning this site into racial issues. Please 🙏🏾with all due respect don't do that

I think you might have misinterpreted @Luvmaking's response, it would seem he was actually supporting what you have said and not disagreeing with you.

Do you agree different races look different?

Do you agree there are different cultures with line oft following that of races?

If you agree there are differences, would you agree have cultural and appearance preferences is just that, cultures/appearances which find attractive vs appearences/cultures do not?

On the flip side is it wise to assume every cross race/culture interest is respectful and not simply fetishizing the other ppl, there is actually no respect, simply using them, seeing them as a sex object, not person?

Very much two sides to this coin. Just cause someone agrees to explore with you, it doesnt mean they respect you at all, let alone more than the person who doesn't wish to explore, same way doesnt mean the person who doesnt wish to explore has hatred or no respect for you.

Well said and informed. Thanks for the insightful feedback. Much respect

Through this kind engagement we learn to respect each other and understand better

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Well said and informed. Thanks for the insightful feedback. Much respect

If you take a little walk through the forums you will find a few examples of the cross race/culture interest very much being disrespectful, seeing people of other races as nothing but mere sex objects to use for their own self gratification and sexual interests/curiosity, like something to scratch off a bucket list, with quite crude comments.

That's what really sparked my interest in writing about this topic. There's a lot of us to be said about it. Women are victims of that and left no choice to choose mostly. It will get better if we keep talking and making awareness by sharing inputs and positive things

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That's what really sparked my interest in writing about this topic. There's a lot of us to be said about it. Women are victims of that and left no choice to choose mostly. It will get better if we keep talking and making awareness by sharing inputs and positive things

Unfortunately, thats as much as Im pretty much allowed to say by todays society's standards, like many others who are only judged without being heard, and when you look at who the problem profiles are, giving themselves away in the forums, how they express themselves on the topic, I think I'll just leave it there thanks, like irl, it helps nothing to say anything, only gets a person condemned and judged, no thanks, yet it facts, very relevant points.

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That's what really sparked my interest in writing about this topic. There's a lot of us to be said about it. Women are victims of that and left no choice to choose mostly. It will get better if we keep talking and making awareness by sharing inputs and positive things

No choice to choose? Meaning?

This subject will never die. We all adults well hopefully. some are attracted to small boobs other large. Some are attracted to white skin others black. Respect their choices