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That and the profiles that don't show area / distance . . . .

Remember some people like to be very private. The person around them (friends and work place) does not always agree with the LS. I have seen a couple and lady interacting with each other in a bar and some (most) persons pushed the a side. Now wen they visit the pub people does not interact (speak) with them. It's a very Grey area.....

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Remember some people like to be very private. The person around them (friends and work place) does not always agree with the LS. I have seen a couple and lady interacting with each other in a bar and some (most) persons pushed the a side. Now wen they visit the pub people does not interact (speak) with them. It's a very Grey area.....

You don't need to show face on site, if you just show a little bit of your self, no one will know. And if someone does recognise you, they are also on the site, so who they going to tell? Who knows you might just make new friends with benefits...

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You don't need to show face on site, if you just show a little bit of your self, no one will know. And if someone does recognise you, they are also on the site, so who they going to tell? Who knows you might just make new friends with benefits...

So true...I will remember it thanks...

It means a lot.

In most cases it turns out to be a single guy behind that account.

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So this has been bothering me for some time now...

Why do people have profiles with the bare minimum, no profile pic, no public media, not even a well constructed bio?

And active accounts that have joined many years ago, still stating "Hi we are new to this". What's up with that?

Totally agree! Those are also normally the ones who want your private pictures first.

Ai jai jai.

Lazy and entitled. They usually have this idea that they can just walk in and pick a lady/couple from the catalogue and get serviced. The 'here for a good time, not a long time' boys. Or they're sneaking and have no intention of ever letting their wives know about this couples profile they have created, but it gets them free pics to drool over.

If your profile represents you, and it is bare and boring, then I'm inclined to think that you are too.

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Lazy and entitled. They usually have this idea that they can just walk in and pick a lady/couple from the catalogue and get serviced. The 'here for a good time, not a long time' boys. Or they're sneaking and have no intention of ever letting their wives know about this couples profile they have created, but it gets them free pics to drool over.

If your profile represents you, and it is bare and boring, then I'm inclined to think that you are too.

💯 agree with you on this. Boring profiles = boring lovers. If one can put Effort in something like a profile then you’re definitely going to put effort into everything else. I can’t be bothered to reply to profiles with little or no info. What’s the point 🙄

I suppose when it comes to public media,in todays times there are alot of people on the site who are pic collectors and on the site to see whos in the lifestyle so some prefer to keep it private by not putting any pics

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I suppose when it comes to public media,in todays times there are alot of people on the site who are pic collectors and on the site to see whos in the lifestyle so some prefer to keep it private by not putting any pics

But then at least have a decent profile description!

I agree a decent profile description should be mandatory..

Its truly an issue these days. And not just with blank profiles, unfortunately there are a lot of profiles that are actually well detailed and filled in yet never bother to live out the lifestyle. honestly dont know why people even bother to be on the site to start off with if they never plan to meet or actually try to live out the lifestyle, like its a sexual lifestyle that you should logically think about before even bothering to join it. Yes personal lives are a thing, work and kids and busy weekends are a thing, totally understandable but jeez if you are more than 6 months on the site and havent done anything, no meetups, no vouches, basically just a "bot" profile...whats the point? Like the site should have a time limit or something which says you cannot be on the site for longer than a period of time if you havent actually done anything to meet people.