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I want to have this one as an example "Kan ons jul fotos sien groot asb!" thats the first mail received, what must we make of it, the sender did not chat or mail at any time must we send a mail back waisting our time or what. For intrust it is a couple
I would never send a mail like that and think the receiver must take time to reply. Hope i received a good answer
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Quote by ash
i dont have an issue if such messages are ignored, however , if someone posts an add saying yes we interested in single males or couples or whatever and i answer that add i would appreciate a thank you but no thank you. i would even appreciate a rude reply as appossed to silence .
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Quote by georgeous
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It seems quite funny how many "straight men" look at my profile. What are they trying to say?
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Quote by LeeEC
Ok - I've read most of this thread and I think I need to make one comment
"Straight male" is NOT THE SAME THING AS "Single male" or "profile with one male member - married or single"
And "single male" and "straight male" is not the same thing as "unmarried male"
There IS NO OPTION TO SAY "single profile" or "couple profile" is what we are interested in - THOSE options are only available for filtering purposes when you use the SEARCH option in the BROWSE area.
Those tick boxes are for you to indicate who you are interested in getting contact from but "one member male profile" is NOT AN OPTION AVAILABLE FOR TICKING or not ticking. AND you shouldn't assume that that option is there, it IS NOT.
If I tick "straight male" I am indicating what sort of SEXUAL ORIENTATION I am open to meeting and it has NOTHING to do with the make up of the people/couple/group that is represented by the profile (or for that matter my profile either). A straight male could be part of a couple, a single or part of a gangbang.
ALSO just because a guy is bi doesn't mean I as the female part of the couple would exclude the possibility of playing with him - but our profile says my man is straight so the bi guy should know he isn't getting any bi action while playing with us. ALSO on that note - if I tick "bi male" on our profile that DOES NOT MAKE MY MAN OPEN TO BI PLAY, it just means we don't discriminate against a person for being bi and deny him a taste of MY wares because of it.
Does that make sense? I think one needs to make the distinction.
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Quote by LeeEC
Ok - I've read most of this thread and I think I need to make one comment
"Straight male" is NOT THE SAME THING AS "Single male" or "profile with one male member - married or single"
And "single male" and "straight male" is not the same thing as "unmarried male"
There IS NO OPTION TO SAY "single profile" or "couple profile" is what we are interested in - THOSE options are only available for filtering purposes when you use the SEARCH option in the BROWSE area.
Those tick boxes are for you to indicate who you are interested in getting contact from but "one member male profile" is NOT AN OPTION AVAILABLE FOR TICKING or not ticking. AND you shouldn't assume that that option is there, it IS NOT.
If I tick "straight male" I am indicating what sort of SEXUAL ORIENTATION I am open to meeting and it has NOTHING to do with the make up of the people/couple/group that is represented by the profile (or for that matter my profile either). A straight male could be part of a couple, a single or part of a gangbang.
ALSO just because a guy is bi doesn't mean I as the female part of the couple would exclude the possibility of playing with him - but our profile says my man is straight so the bi guy should know he isn't getting any bi action while playing with us. ALSO on that note - if I tick "bi male" on our profile that DOES NOT MAKE MY MAN OPEN TO BI PLAY, it just means we don't discriminate against a person for being bi and deny him a taste of MY wares because of it.
Does that make sense? I think one needs to make the distinction.
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Quote by Adonis
I want to have this one as an example "Kan ons jul fotos sien groot asb!" thats the first mail received, what must we make of it, the sender did not chat or mail at any time must we send a mail back waisting our time or what. For intrust it is a couple
I would never send a mail like that and think the receiver must take time to reply. Hope i received a good answer
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Quote by Gerrie2012
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It seems quite funny how many "straight men" look at my profile. What are they trying to say?
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) . Through respect, good manners, and eating on humble pie(oh and also performing as we claim to able to :wink: we can elevate ourselves , and find more than enough willing couples and females on the site.
I do not either think that couples can be rude without provocation, just because there is a segment of single males who are giving us a bad reputation. Try and treat each guy on merit.. By generalising all single guys as louts you may miss the experience of a life time.
As I don't think it is fair and practical for couples to respond to every mail with a yes or no thanks(not only to single guys but other couples as well) , hope that all members take some time to create their profiles and check that they are a clear reflection of them and their wants/ needs etc. I think it is disrespectful not complete the tickbox section at least. The options have been compiled based on peoples natural and personal preferences. If you are not comfortable with revealing your relationship status, body type etc, then the lifestyle is not for you.(if you really want to experience it, it's as close to honesty you going to get).
Single guys: Knowing that we are under scrutiny regarding our conduct, we cannot then claim ignorance if we read INTERESTED IN STRAIGHT MALE, and then choose ignore that they have then stated NO SINGLE MALES!!!! in their about section. So what if it contradicts the tickbox. Wonder what we do if they had not ticked the box , but we happened to notice that they later stated they were eager to fuck as many single men as possible in their "About" section??
Sorry for rambling on, but this topic has so many aspects, and leads to the consequent debate.."what about the single guys behaviour when with the couple?"
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Quote by Stamina
Manners are something that we are (or should be) taught from a young age. Most of us are well-mannered in every other interaction with people eg work, family, vanilla friends etc Why should it be any different here?
We pride ourselves on the fact that we do read EVERY profile of every person who mails and/or winks at us. We answer all mails and/or winks of profiles which fit our description of whom we will respond to. We only ignore those who blatantly have ignored our request not to be contacted by them.
PS: To Phil, if you have the time, please read our profile and let us know if you find it ambiguous in any way?
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Quote by gemini_man
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Through respect, good manners, and eating on humble pie(oh and also performing as we claim to able to
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Sorry for rambling on, but this topic has so many aspects, and leads to the consequent debate.."what about the single guys behaviour when with the couple?"
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@LeeEC, it does not make sense,
under your profile when setting up, there are 6 couple selections available if you only want couples (viewable on your profile), as opposed to "straight male" - straight couple, couple with bi-male, couple with bi female, bi couple, gay male couple, gay female couple, I think that covers all couple options and make it easier for the single guys not to reply to a couple who are more specific.
If you wanted to play on your own then to avoid bi-males contacting both of you, wouldn't it make more sense just to have your own personal profile?
The top 6 options are all for singles, the bottom 6 couples.
Just my 2 cents worth :twisted:
(considering how much a 2 cent is worth considering it is no longer valid tender , probably not going to do much with either the opinions or profiles of the people out there)
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One of the life skills I have learned, is to try to see things from the other persons point of view. As a single gentleman, I have spoken to many couples over the years. From what I hear from couples, and especially couples with a very well put together public photo album, they get literally bombarded daily with neanderthal like men who say things like, "would you like to fuck" or "I can help you fuck your wife" or "I can like to fuck your wife properly" 🤣
This type of greeting happening repeatedly, and sometimes daily can really wear the profile administrator down to the point where they may not be so polite when an unexpected decent single guy makes contact. I must be honest, such bombardment would wear my patients thin too. A large part of the problem, I think, is that there is very little actual "reading of profile description" and couples are equally guilty of this. Personally, I love reading profile descriptions because it is easy to identify a quality couple by the way they write about their needs and requirements. One way in which to show respect to a couple or a couple to a single guy, is if you make first contact, start with saying "Hello Bob, or Sally or BobSallyCouple. Using a profiles name in ones greeting can really improve how the message is received. Greetings like "Hi, we loved your profile, would you like to chat - fullstop. This looks like a copy and paste greeting. As a single guy and I get this type of greeting from couples all the time. Dale Carnegie said "The most beautiful sound a person will ever hear, is the sound of their name"
