When hunting, do what works.

This is a principle that we as humanity have been practicing for many thousands of years simply because if we hadn’t, we would not have survived, capiche! So, I have to ask, why oh why do so many guys keep using a technique that has been proven over and over to not work, and that just about every girl on here will tell you, does not work? I am talking about having a profile containing only dick pics or, worse, sending unsolicited dick pics.

For the life of me, I can’t figure out why guys do it. Is it because it is the first thing that comes to mind and it’s easy? Is being overly sexual the only way you know of being sexy?

Sadly, this has become somewhat of an epidemic and it is annoying, even for a dude. So, I have decided to write a piece about why you shouldn’t do it, maybe it helps.

Before we continue, a disclaimer. I am writing this under the assumption that you would ideally like to find a sexual partner because that is true for probably 95% of people on here. That is why we are talking about hunting because, let’s face it, that is what we as guys do to a greater or lesser degree. It’s not a problem because unless stated otherwise, most girls actually want to be pursued. The caveat, though, is that want to be pursued skillfully. Write that down: Skill.

When you only have dick pics on your profile, it says the following:

1: You are a moron.

Yes. You insist on using a technique that doesn’t work, and in this day and age where information and guidance are available in such abundance that is just stupid. There are 100s of videos on YouTube on how to compile a great profile and yet here you are forging ahead with your dick pics. I don’t know if you think that is going to make girls swoon but actually, they are making fun of you every time the topic comes up. You’re macho? No, you’re a joke.

2: You have no idea how the female mind works.

There are many things that turn women on, and in many cases just your dick is kinda low on that list UNLESS she has explicitly told you that she digs that dong and, trust me, girls will tell you. Things like your hands, your skills, the way you conduct yourself, the way you appreciate her, the way you carry yourself, the way you dress, these can all be turn-on’s, so show them. Use the girl’s mind to your advantage.

3: You have no imagination.

Could you really think of nothing else to put on your profile? Most girls do like a guy who can come up with a few ideas. Picture this: Things are getting hot and heavy and she is excitedly waiting to see what kinky act you are going to come up with but it is, predictably, penile penetration. Whoopy doo!! Yes, there is a time and a place for that but you have to be able to read the situation and it MOST DEFINITELY isn’t all the time. She has a whole body and mind to explore, but you are going to need to apply some imagination to walk that path to it’s full and amazing extent.

3: You don’t know how to seduce a girl.

In most cases, seducing a girl is a dance of skill and wit, requiring all your faculties. It also requires that you not act in a predatory manner because, guys, girls don’t like feeling like prey and when they do, well, prey runs away. I know that some of the girls on here have very liberal ideas about sex but they are still women in the same way as we are still men, just like when we had to defend our tribe against cave bears. Trying to use a dick pic to seduce her is like appealing to one small part of her womanhood and thinking you are going to get the whole woman. Sex, to women, is usually a whole being experience and over the ling term they generally want their entire beings to be fulfilled by it. Your dick alone can’t do that.

4: You are lazy.

Nobody wants a lazy lover because life is too short. Are you going to be that guy who pounded away for all of 2 minutes, came and then fell asleep while her whole body needs to be touched? Your online profile is like a sales brochure for a holiday destination, and if you couldn’t even post one proper photo that took a bit of effort, even with your face cut off, that doesn’t make you look like Captain Initiative. I mean, is this how you market yourself?

And then, we come to something that is especially infuriating and abusive: Sending unsolicited dick pics. This should be punishable by law as sexual abuse.

I think that most guys don’t appreciate how violated this makes a girl feel. I didn’t either until some random dude sent one to me. It made me feel so angry and, yes, violated. And this is what sending one says about you.

5: You have no problem with violating her boundaries and you will do so aggressively.

You are forcing her to experience something that she doesn’t want and that is damaging to her as a person. You don’t know her, she did you no harm, and yet this is how you choose to conduct yourself towards her when all that she did was to have the courage to create an online profile, fully knowing that she would be subjected to this sort of thing but hoping for at least something better. And here you are, representing the very worst of your gender. I don’t know if this makes you feel like a real man, but maybe go read ‘If’ by Rudyard Kipling. You will not find yourself there.

There is no excuse for this.

Guys, the point of this post is this: Do better. Educate yourself and then be an ambassador for yourself.