Written by AngeliqueB

Fact
28 Mar 2014


The hottest couples do not just have great sex, they have embarrassing sex; make-up sex; wild, can't-walk-the-next-day sex, and more. And the thing is, every kind of sex is crucial for your relationship: even couldn't-quite-stay-awake-to-finish sex. So, why limit your experiences to standard fare when there is a whole sensual smorgasbord to sample? Mixing up your sex routine brings mystery and adventure to your love life - two qualities that keep things fresh between the sheets.

Start by indulging in these sex styles there are a LOT more for every mood and occasion (see list at the end.)

TAKE-YOUR-SWEET-TIME SEX

When you have the gift of time, languishing in supersensory, soulful lovemaking can be a rhapsodic revelation...and a relationship booster. With sensual sex, it is not all about where you are going, but the process that gets you there. When you slow down and attempt to keep your orgasms (yours and hers) at bay, you are more focused on exploring every inch of each other's bodies and savoring your time together. The emotional benefits are long-lasting too. Knowing that you care enough to lavish you love on each other for hours, and that you are each others number one priority, builds confidence and security. Plus, your bond in general will feel more intimate because you have both made the bedroom a place for enjoying each other, not just sexual sensations.

LIGHT-SPEED SEX

A quickie is kind of like an earthquake: It gets your adrenaline rushing, is over in a flash, and leaves you weak in the knees. Besides releasing your pent-up lust, initiating a quickie can be the ultimate compliment to your partner, because it shows how deeply you desire them. In addition, when it has been a stressful day, a fast and furious romp really takes the edge off.

Put simply: Sometimes you want to take your time, and sometimes you just want to get your rocks off! When you can tell each other that you are in a horny, hasty mood, do not even bother fully undressing just go for it!

SHOW-OFF SEX

You may think it would be easier to give a speech in the presence of 500 people than to masturbate in front of your partner, but taking that plunge may be worth it experts say that watching especially a woman pleasure herself is near the top of most men's fantasy wish lists. But, it is not just a very personal peep show; it is a chance to teach your partner exactly how you would like to be handled. Revealing to your partner how you master your own domain is one of the most secretive and intimate things you can do.

COMFORT SEX

Anyone with a pulse would be crazy not to crave a hot-and-spicy sack session. But sometimes, all you want is the sexual equivalent of Mac n Cheese: It may not be exciting, but it makes you feel so good. People have sex for a lot of different reasons, and one of them is to be soothed and comforted. Making each other feel loved and cared for is the most powerful way to bring the psychological and physical elements of your relationship together.

WILD-KINGDOM SEX

It is the raw, primal, grunting kind of sex that wakes the neighbours, scares house pets, and rattles bed frames the more writhing and bucking, the better. Any animalistic sex session starts, fittingly, on all fours (aka doggie-style). Let her grab your hands and wrap them around her waist a cue that she wants you to hold on and thrust and you will answer her call of the wild. Tell her to keep her neck down. It will help her loosen up, all the way down her spine, so you can move your tush with gusto. This kind of sex is also important on a deeper level as it requires a lot of intimacy to let your partner see you in the throes of sexual abandon - when you display that side of yourself. To express a higher level of sensuality like this, is another way of being intimate. And let's not forget how much a toe-curling orgasm does to keep your eyes bright and your soul smiling!

SURRENDER SEX

Men are conquest-loving creatures, which is why you get so hot when your woman lets you take over. If you feel like you are at the top of your game, her surrender is a power trip and a huge turn-on. Right? During foreplay, let her legs fall open and encourage her to hold the headboard or pillows above her, so her whole body is exposed to you. Then, you must slide on top of her and let her meet your thrusts halfway by rocking her pelvis upward against yours and lifting her legs in the air with her feet spread far apart. This gives youi room to maneuve your body and alternate between deep thrusting and short pumping. Then she should drape her legs over your shoulders, so you can grab her ankles and position them where you want them. You must run the show here! Hopefully you have the skills to get you both there!

FEMALE-DOMINATION SEX

If you is been doing all the pouncing and pawing lately, let her take the reins. But, a truly titillating takeover has to be authentic and not staged, so wait until she is really randy and then tell her to straddle you, and tell her to be In Charge! Tell her to treat you like her own personal sex toy. Let her pin your hands to the bed or even tie them to the headboard with scarves or stockings, while she grinds against your lap in a circular motion. Once in action and aroused, you are sure to get even more!

PUSHING-YOUR-BOUNDARIES SEX

There is nothing like the moment when you are lying naked with the person you have known and loved for a long time, panting and puffing, thinking, Wow, we've never done that before. People in long-term relationships sometimes crave excitement and stimulation, but do not know how to get it with their partner which remains one of the reasons people stray outside the relationship (usually marriage.) But you could get it in your current relationship by pushing your regular comfort zone. If you are used to missionary, that may mean trying a new position or a new room in the house; if you are used to stimulation by body parts alone, it may be a sex toy thrown in the mix. And if you feel a little anxious about experimenting all the better as the anxiety you feel about trying something new, mimics what happens when you are with somebody new. So, if you can create that feeling within the confines of an intimate, close, trusting relationship, you will keep reenergizing what you have.

And there is another important benefit: Pushing your boundaries helps build trust between you. When you communicate a desire to your partner and, ultimately, try it you are taking a big risk together which in itself, is a bonding activity.

MAINTENANCE SEX

Let's face it sex just is not going to be an eye-gazing spiritual encounter every time. Some couples think everything has to feel perfect, or you both have to be in a sexual mood to have sex, but if everyone waited for that, sex would not happen very often at all. That is where maintenance sex comes in when you just do it, even if your engine is not necessarily raring for a ride. Just-for-the-sake-of-it sex is vital to a long-term relationship, because no matter how much you love your family, your friends, or your kids, and even your pets and no matter how much time you spend with them, you will not spend time like this with anyone else. Sex is the one activity a couple has that excludes other people - it keeps your bond unique and strong.By making a habit of it, you build regular opportunities for connection into your lives.

And let's not forget how good regular sex is for you: It relieves stress, it burns calories, and it elevates your mood - doing it sometimes when not in the mood keeps you geared up for something much hotter another time.

EMBARRASSING-MOMENT SEX

It is bound to happen eventually: One of you emits an awkward grunt, your sweat-soaked skin slaps together in a cringe-inducing fashion, or your partner pulls or pushes in such a way as to create a schluup sound that both of you would like to forget. As mortifying as a moment like this may be even with someone you ha've been with for a long time it is a good reminder that sex is a raw, Discovery Channel kind of act. It's not supposed to be flawless. Sex is full of smells and sights and sounds; it's natural as you are having sex with human bodies, they do funny things sometimes, and that is okay. Your ability to deal with a red-in-the-face moment whether you laugh it off or give each other a sympathetic squeeze says a lot about the strength of your bond. True intimacy is about being able to feel comfortable and real with each other in awkward, embarrassing situations.

Changing your sex pace can lead your physical relationship to places you might never have gone. Opening more sexual doors will allow both of you to fulfill more of your undisclosed desires. The different kinds of sex can add a new aspect physically and will add supplementary spice into your sex life. Sure, you and your partner have good sex. Ideally, you have fantastic sex, as often as possible. But there is more to a solid sex life than just straight-up great sex. A truly amazing sexual connection encompasses lots of different kinds of sex maybe even ones you would not expect. After all, your relationship is not one-note, so why should your sex life be? You change, you age, and you grow as a couple in an emotional and an intellectual way. Hopefully you are growing and changing sexually too. And, the more dimensions there are in a relationship in general, the more you will see those dimensions reflected in your sex life.

So, which kinds of sex have you and your other half hit so far?

As for the ones you have not, well ... you now know what to do.

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Here is a Types of Sex List can you relate to any?

(Any you would like to add?)

1) Make up Sex

2) Break up Sex

3) Im bored and theres nothing on TV Sex

4) Im drunk and a little bit lonely and youre here Sex

5) I forgot to get you a BirthdayValentines DayChristmas present Sex

6) Im regretting this even as Im doing it (but its too late to back out now) Sex

7) You talked about your ex for an hour this afternoon Sex

8) I saw you checking someone else out Sex

9) Im a little bit guilty for checking someone out Sex*

10) Revenge Sex

11) Pity Sex

12) Im trying to prove something to my hot friend Sex

13) Weve been on a road trip and gotten really close Sex

14) We once hooked up and Im trying to see if theres still a connection Sex

15) I had a crush on you in high school Sex

16) I had a crush on you in high school and now youre fat and Im hot Sex

17) Im about to break up with you only Im not sure how to do it so I will initiate sex Sex

18) I wasnt going to have sex with you but then I saw how everyone else was looking at you so I changed my mind Sex

19) Youre my friend and I just saw you in a new light Sex

20) This is more about me than you Sex (applies to mile high clubs and one night stands)

21) I havent had sex in a really long time and you make me feel less like a person who is going to have to be CELIBATE FOREVER Sex

22) Youre much younger than me and so you make me feel agile Sex

23) You talked about how much you like my writing and so I feel connected to you Sex (only a writers thing, I guess.)

24) Secret Sex

25) I just broke up with someone and I want to test the whole the only way to get over someone is to get under someone else theory Sex

26) Post sexting Sex

27) Youre my co-worker but you looked really hot at the office party Sex

28) Significant occasion Sex (birthdays, New Years, etc)

29) This is supposed to match an image I have in my mind Sex

30) I dont really want to sleep with you, but youre really nice and would make an excellent partner so Im going to try and see if it works Sex

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On a ligher note:

The 4 Most Common Stages of Sex

HOUSE SEX - When you are newly married and have sex all over the house in every room.

BEDROOM SEX - After you have been married for a while, you only have sex in the bedroom.

HALL SEX - After you've been married for many, many years you just pass each other in the hall and say "FUCK YOU"

COURTROOM SEX - When your wife/husband and their lawyer fuck you in the divorce court in front of many people for every penny you've got.


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