My wife eventually decided to try a solo adventure. She met a guy we all met and she explained what she wanted/expected. Well the meet went well my wife did like the intellectual conversation good looking and an all round nice guy. They continued to chat a few days and arrangements were made. My wife who I may say is very much in love with me was both nervous and excited, I told her go enjoy yourself and she said she would. The day arrived my wife got dressed up and left for her date. Now all went well they enjoyed talking and had dinner 🍴 then went to his place, they went to his room and he turned off the lights it was so dark the comfortable feeling started to drift away, they kissed and with very little foreplay he was inside her, now my wife doesn't do rough and by rough I mean hair pulling and so on and this her date knew,but he decided that's what he wanted and did just that, his member "accidentally" slipped out a few times and he tried putting it in the other hole which is a no go for my wife. Now my wife can fake it like a pro and decided enough of this crap shes going to fake and get this over. When she returned home she headed straight to the bathroom to bath and when I got to her while she was getting dressed she grabbed me crying saying never again that was the worst experience she ever had. After a discussion we decided to leave the lifestyle, not long we rejoined with different rules and solo's are not really on the cards but not impossible however this opened up that I can try solo adventures as well.