So as usual we look for someone we can make our usual playmate and met a gentleman one that is not my wife's usual taste. Now my wife doesn't do bearded men but she enjoyed chatting to him so we invited him for coffee to meet and this went off very well. Well the wife and him chatted more over the next day or so and the gentleman grew extremely excited and wanted to visit again. My wife and I discussed it and said well let's have some fun and invited him over. The evening came my wife dressed up and we waited for our guest, well he came and we all chatted a bit when my wife said let's go to the bedroom. We got there and his over excitement was just to much so I decided this won't be a great experience I won't get very involved because wow this guy was way to excited and ended so quickly I didn't even get turned on by the events , at least my wife kind of enjoyed it and not long after the gent left. This was a week ago and since his been very quiet but we understand work and such can be hectic but after a few days we came to the conclusion he was a hit n run. We have a theory he was probably married and that is a no go for us. So now we searching again for that friend that will be our regular.