I was 71 when I started on line dating . I joined a site which doesnt exist anymore . The people were from.all over the world Not a good decision but a bloody good laugh . The 1 who stuck in my mind was a gorgeous guy who was 20 . He slayed me with flattery that 😍 kinda worked We would sit up all night chatting and I would watch him at work Yes he worked at a place called the station and repaired play stations to enable the customers to game. He had control over me believe it or not . This story is long with many twists I will not prolong the agony . In my early days of online dating I reckon I should give men a chance If I found their messaging tedious but their profiles intriguing .Maybe hes not just as good at writing as I am. If they dont intrigue me with words I would delete In theory it should be easy to find someone on line because theres a presumption that other people online are looking for the same thing .In practise mutual attraction isnt enough. I was lucky I met someone who was 39 and he is 47 now . He intrigued me with words . Ive been looking for someone like you all my life . Ive learnt to remember after years online If things dont workout for me on SH its less likely to have anything to do with me .