Exhibitionism accepted

Just a short intro and thoughts on where I am right now... I hope the eyes who enjoy this kind of reading find this reading, wanting to read more.

I have been an avid nudist for many years. Perhaps when my first marriage ended, I found sanctity within some more erotic versions of myself. The first trip to the nude beach in my early 30s was both nerve-wrecking and erotic. Dipping my toes into nudity (and the sea) at Sandy Bay was quite a thrill. Over the years I've been back and seen and enjoyed a thing or two.

I remain respectful of traditional nudists who seek purity and closeness to nature without the sexual innuendos but as much as I try not to, I do get a sexual thrill when I take my clothes off around others. I suppose this led me to identify myself as a bit of an exhibitionist. Lately, I have visited a kink club in Cape Town. I can't recommend it more highly. The owners or so very welcoming of single males. I was surprised to find that many single females and couples are also into the kinky sex world. Once people found out that I had an exhibitionist side, I was encouraged to bare all. Now, when I social there, I strip off and enjoy many admirers.

I wouldn't say that I am the stereotype of hot male bod, though I think many other kink-sters appreciate the boldness and confidence of nakedness. I really get excited by couples who approach me and want to enjoy play together. I have found that I don't mind a man stroking my cock, especially if women are watching and are interested. One gay man was there with a 2 woman friends and he showed one of them in meticulous detail how to pleasure me by hand (while the other looked on) and then she tried to emulate his skills. Well, that was a practical I was prepared to stand up for! I was lying in a public space on a massage table while others watched. All dreams can come true. I can't remember who made me cum......I was lost in the pleasure of it all. (We have recently made plans for the blow job tutorial!!)

Best of all, a man wanking himself while watching other couples is not frowned upon but encouraged! One can wander around and anyone who is enjoying pleasure in a public space is welcome to be watched. I think the open mindedness of it all is what I have been looking for, for years. I have chatted to people who feel the same. There is no reason now to be labeled a "perv" or strange because acceptance of kinks, orientation, body types etc. Such is paramount in this place, as is consent and respect. As I said, I really believe the world would be a better place if everyone acted as they do there. It is full of harmonious and consenting adults who have no shame in pleasure, or where they are on their individual journey.

Maybe that sounds too philosophical for some who prefer they'd rather hear that it is full of sex and sin...it is that too but it leaves one with a smile on your face and a renewed hope for humanity.