Now I previously gave our 3some fantasy now how we would have liked a couple. Well we would naturally chat to see if we all click from there maybe coffee then a date. The couple would have to grab both our attention in this and because it's a lifestyle were we get out of our comfort zone to embrace the difference. I believe that my party should for that night have a taste of your partners life and I would treat your partner to my wife's life. And so would preference change. Our play mates husband will for that time solely have my wife's attention and would expect him to have hers as I can assure you your wife for that time will be treated like my Queen and I will not only touch her physically but emotionally. Call me old school but sex to me is special and there is no wham bam it's the build up of lust the wanting the journey to the destination must be unforgettable but finding couples thats husband will try a bigger lady is useless and finding a couple with a thinner lady for myself is also useless so we fade that fantasy out. And what I wish people would understand is us who are not Ken and Barbie also know how to have fun