..... Not a story, just a few observations. 1: Guys are we really that hot and potent that we make asses of ourselves? 2: Negative Comment on members in the public space, if it is not for you move on, you will find what floats your boat?? 3: Look at a profiles preference, again don't force yourself on a member, as it is it is tough enough to get the ladies to engage. - You not doing yourself any favors.... 4: Try being a gentleman, it should be part of your DNA.... You'd be surprised what that approach could lead too. 5: ........ and no it is not bashing the Guys day to day..... This is a NSA platform, you don't own, have the right to demand. Treat it as such. Everybody is not for everybody, there are preferences etc. It is what it is... Regards Blinx01 ...... :) I probably should prepare myself for a barrage of testosterone verbal attacks ... Anyway food for thought.