Hello to all, we are a young married couple that has never done this before thus we would prefer a soft swing....we prefer meeting up with you first, perhaps for drinks or even just for coffee, we do not exchanged pics unless you do. Shes in her 20's and his 30, we prefer couples in those age groups...no single men! Couples only, shes big built yet an athlete, he gyms...drop us mail and we will take it from there. x