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unicorn_hunter
1 day ago
Straight Coloured Male, 51
Bi-curious White/Caucasian Female, 45
0 km · Western Cape

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I must agree with the OP and the above we do not dwell too much on being blocked by anyone as it is a personal choice,it does come across as extremely rude and somewhat arrogant when you get blocked for simply viewing a profile or liking a public image.

There is no way to judge whether a profile would be a match without actually viewing the for one do not bother to go into anyone's gallery if your description clearly states "same race only" or " same ethnic group" or "under 30's only"  or "no couple's"etc etc...or any other requirement where we clearly do not match.....but we will only know that by viewing your profile.

If our profiles do not match (as recommended on SH) then surely,if you choose to block our profile then at least there should be an option to let the other party know Why.

So much has been spoken of how decent the people are within the lifestyle and how communication is of utmost importance and how people should be treated with respect yet some choose to act in a rather disrespectfull manner with a simple act of blocking another profile...unless its warranted of course......cos really....some profiles probably deserve being blocked.

Without coming across as overly sensitive in this instance....perhaps a simple dropdown menu with options to choose from when you block a profile

-not a match/not interested

-undue harassment/rude comments

-profile incomplete/no pics etc

-non responsive to email

Perhaps...just perhaps....it won't make the people you are blocking think that you a total arrogant ass with a really shitty attitude.....

Just a thought