Quote by yann
Never suck it up...be upfront and honest about it. They might get upset sometimes but it is their issue, not yours. Most will respect you for being truthful.
I was referring to hookup meetings specifically. If you are sensitive to physical appearance or chemistry then maybe anonymous internet sex is not for you and it is then your responsibility to organize all the pics and coffee dates you require before you arrange a hookup. You can't expect someone to plan, take time out of their day, and commute to a hookup where you don't deliver.