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skinnyup
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual White/Caucasian Male, 52
0 km · Randburg
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Warming the Bed
Stamina, such pettiness. Really! The site does have issues as we know. This is a first. Are you upset because you only look for slim and what you see is not as skinny as, well, me?
I read your profile and what stood out should be debated, no fault of yours (the check box was provided), but what is "almost single"?
Almost divorced= going through proceedings
Almost married= date is set
Almost single= in a shitty relationship? Living with but partner has no interest in the lifestyle?
Point is you are still in a relationship and are you playing fair?
Warming the Bed
Quote by daddy3866
I have been the only one there before and he allowed a black couple into that section, though they did only go into a cubicle and closed the door. Perhaps he has since been warned by the owner. The owner, I think may be accomodating to a point, maybe clear it with patrons there.
Personally though, I do not think it necessary for men only section. Even gay guys do not mind seeing the female body
(generally speaking). I think the issue would be females and straight guys perhaps seeing guy action as been offensive, thus should not enter.
I think what you said is true but just to note one thing and I find this strange. Although it says that is a gay section or why do so many guys go there that are married. Surely they not gay but rather bi. Am I wrong here? I think it should be changed to straight and bi sections.
Skinnyup i hear what you are saying , we did go into a cubical the one with the Barbour Chair and closed and bolted the door , also you say for some seeing "gay action" might be offensive , but that would be personal choice wouldnt it ? , im streight but dont have an issue seeing it i just wont partake of it , my girl is Bi and she and also doesnt have a problem seeing it.
If gay guys dont have an issue seeing a naked female body its all good , it doesnt mean they must partake of her , but like i said other than one guy sitting in the hetro movie side we were the only people there
Yes daddy, what offends or not, is a personal choice. The point is, if you do go into that section, expect to see the guys playing, if you do not like it you should not have opened the "book"!
As far as gay/ bi etc, (take this as light humour, I am not an expert), but I think all guys are at least a bit bi curious, just some have heavier closet doors.
Warming the Bed
I have been the only one there before and he allowed a black couple into that section, though they did only go into a cubicle and closed the door. Perhaps he has since been warned by the owner. The owner, I think may be accomodating to a point, maybe clear it with patrons there.
Personally though, I do not think it necessary for men only section. Even gay guys do not mind seeing the female body
(generally speaking). I think the issue would be females and straight guys perhaps seeing guy action as been offensive, thus should not enter.
Warming the Bed
Freedom, I have to disagree, I am a bi male( with a little extra odd twist), and yes there are a few who may be a little nasty and many who have no comment at all, which I accept that who I am is not their thing.
However I have had pleasure in meeting and chatting to many members who do accept my lifestyle, which consists of males, females and couples who do and do not have bi male sexual interests.
Warming the Bed
Awesome venue, the area is suspect. I do think that the hetero cinema is a flop, though I do not think anyone would mind if the females were to explore the rest of the establishment.
The second time i went, I was disappointed with the movies shown. I do think the owner is friendly and accomodating and would be happy to oblige with requests.
The venue is an awesome set up which has given me many ideas for all.
Warming the Bed
I think some of you are really missing the point here. I do think that if you are straight and wanting a FMM encounter, then the additional male participant you'd want to be straight too. The 'seeking Bi Male', would suggest you are into additional play.
The same goes for your profile stating straight male and after I query this you admit to been bi or bi curious, asking me all detail and loving my thrill.
Let's be honest
Warming the Bed
The site has allowed me to express the thrills i enjoy. I have met many open minded people who accept the fantasies I endulge, many are now very good friends. The change in my life is a confident acceptance of who I am, what I enjoy and an openess to enjoy these little fetishes.
Warming the Bed
I have 17 tattoos and my ears are pierced to 4mm (no, I will not go larger). A very good friend was an artist and spent vast amounts of time in his studio, helping with design requests and running the front for him. I, myself, am not very artistic and have had the pleasure of tattooing 4 of my mates.
I have had the discussions of which tattoo, why, why not, picture, tribal, text etc etc, it's your tattoo and if it makes you happy then do it.
