Easygoing, open minded, fun, extremely discreet guy. Can hold a conversation and good sense of humor. I am looking for a long term female for discreet fun, laughs, friendship and see where it leads. Ladies 35 and above only please, your appearance is not the most important but cleanliness, discretion and safety is paramount. Also you need to be able to hold a conversation (apart for fun I like a chat and some laughs as well). I am married and not looking for complications, am a smoker also so if this is not to your liking kindly move along. No pics on profile due to discretion and won't exchange any pics until I feel completely safe and comfortable to do so. Not looking to jump into anything and insist on a public meeting first, no expectations and if no chemistry we move along without any hard feelings. I will communicate via email, BBM, wechat and in chatroom only at first until we have met and both feel comfortable. I am available freely daytime and evenings and also a very regular traveler all over the country.