Ok let me start by saying thank you to all the members that have a completed profile-well done! Yes, I do read profiles and genuinely enjoy learning about each of you. It also helps me avoid wasting the time of members who may not be interested in single men.

As a single mature man who has been in the lifestyle for several years, I find it very sad that respect seems to have been lost by many people. After all, respect is the foundation of everything we do.

Yes, I know what this site is about—meeting new friends, NSA partners, fun, and yes, even that lifetime partner. But that doesn’t mean we should be rude or disrespectful.

 I am as straight as an arrow, so please respect that. Bi males, please read this carefully.

I understand that in a threesome, I am always the outside, and that will never change. The lady’s rule is always the most important part of any relationship.

I’d like to find a lady or a couple who can become friends—not just an NSA encounter. Someone I can meet after work for a drink and a chat before heading home. not that there is anything wrong with a NSA meeting.

I never cross the color barrier —respect that. If I’ve sent you a message, it might be because you haven’t completed your profile.

I have kids at home, as do most of you, and they always come first. Please understand that.

I’m 60+ years old—yes, old, I know! But I haven’t had any problems with that so far. I do forget things now and again, 😉

The profile pictures are truly me.

I enjoy MFM, MF, MFF group events, and parties.

Remember, a stranger is only someone you haven’t met yet.

Yes, this is a swinging site, but making friends is just as important—and sometimes even better—spending time together, whether it’s chatting around a fire or sharing a drink.

If I send you a message, please respond—even if it’s to say no thank you. I respect and understand everyone’s different.

Feel free to ask more questions.

And never forget to keep smiling.