UPDATED:

I thought I’d explain our setup properly, because I prefer being transparent from the start.

I’m a single guy and have a regular female playmate. We have a consensual D/s dynamic, but it’s important to understand that this is a mutually agreed dynamic between us — it doesn’t define either of us outside of our play together.

We each maintain our own profiles and are free to explore independently. At the same time, we both enjoy the possibility of meeting another adventurous single woman who wants to share an experience with us, as well as connecting with couples who enjoy exploring together.

There’s really no “you have to fit into our dynamic” expectation. You can decide what interests you — whether that’s getting to know me individually, meeting her, meeting both of us, playing separately, or potentially exploring together.

The same applies if you’re simply curious and want to chat first. We’re very much about consent, boundaries, communication and letting chemistry determine what happens rather than forcing a particular arrangement.