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janilse
1 week ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 65
Bisexual White/Caucasian Female, 64
0 km · KwaZulu Natal

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Couple Swingers..... For all those where nothing happens or you get bad experiences, listen up.. Usually the male organises the 'thing' and the lady just falls in........ or that's what he thinks! Guys.. The ladies have other things to think about than wham bang. There are things like PMS, kids, fam and friends dinner and sometimes breakfast. The guys just want to have fun, understandable with all of life's pressures, BUT remember, your lady looks like she's taking it all in her stride but you are in reality squeezing in 'friends' into 'her' time. Males: Sooooo......... handle requests, & weed out the weirdos, get contact numbers, feel in control etc. then pass it on to the one who wears the panties, g-string or nothing. Fems: If you control it what can go wrong? You control the meets, mood and tempo, so you don't even need a 'headache'. Both: If your relationship is not stable do NOT use swinging as an alternative, you will only make matters worse. JANILSE