We tend to also think the good old days is gone yes but to be fair the cost of living has gone sky high maybe its not that lifestylers or some of them are just not chilling these day all work no play we as a couple like a party can be a club or a small private party a small group most of the times is lots of fun we like to call it is a party and not a play we never make play arrangements a party nice music sexyness of dancing and we know something can happen there to call it a play you feel pressured if something happens naturally its awesome .To the point of in our town Pretoria nothing happening here anymore looks like we need to travel but we decided not to travel couple years ago reason is we have a child at home and with work and family responsibility its time consuming maybe one day we will travel again but yes things have change after covid by the looks of it

Big and small we love them all

Well we as a couple also only the Mr watches and what happen with a go with flow happen no expectations and only respect for all just to see the lady,s haveing fun is a reward of a sexy scene already

Must say we also like less 50 is also alot maybe 5 to 10 couples or singles depend on the group of people thats in the group little larger can give you more choice yes we had great parties with only about 5 couples and was super awesome

O yes its so not user friendly anymore we kind of lost interest in the site

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So I really found this idea a little more interesting than I initially thought . So Google a bit and found that there is a Czech show that takes this idea a bit further. Couples that swap and live with each others partners for a few days. That's a bit extreme, but does make for good viewing.

Back to the point at hand ... we would actually go for a separate swap for a night. It's a new experience that could only be fun. But also agree there is not a lot of people secure enough to try sadly ...

Now this would be a good idea also turns us on swap for a night can be kinky i think but yes you must be very secure in your relationship must say we are open and talk about everything what we like and what not always room to explore allot more

Could not agree more . Must say it could be interesting to see how many couples might be into this. Might even lead to some fun filled times ...

I do agree like minded couples who all have the same feeling about this and is also secure and openminded in that way

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So I really found this idea a little more interesting than I initially thought . So Google a bit and found that there is a Czech show that takes this idea a bit further. Couples that swap and live with each others partners for a few days. That's a bit extreme, but does make for good viewing.

Back to the point at hand ... we would actually go for a separate swap for a night. It's a new experience that could only be fun. But also agree there is not a lot of people secure enough to try sadly ...

Now this would be a good idea also turns us on swap for a night can be kinky i think but yes you must be very secure in your relationship must say we are open and talk about everything what we like and what not always room to explore allot more

Sounds like it could be a experience on its own we did separate room play but this would be something else but it can work why not we did give each other consent to play separate alone if and when such a thing come's our way its just so kinky to know that she is naughty alone do something to me as the hubby

Good idea to go with this if you cant at least have a quik meet and greet just a coffee in about 2 weeks time drop it all and let go 

We also the same and not so positive about the people on this site anymore we do know couples that are real on here but to meet new ones on here its realy far fetched this days and we dont have time to waste life is so busy but we will still try but those ones that only chat and chat no meet we are going to block them ans also add to the list 

Its not only you guys it happen that they are interested share some private albums and dont talk again like you said a month or 2 later and the conversations starts all over again we had it with couples who are very interested in meeting just having socials they even send us there nice party area and and that happen couple of times even ask for our phone number you start to chat even on whats upp but it end up on dead chat anyway again there is lots of couples profiles on here that do this some of them ask your number and they never contact you and next time they start to chat again and again 

We think some of them dont whant to do socialise in the life style they to scare in taking that first step or at all or maybe just perving over and over just the man on the other side and the wife dont know anything about it but yes you guys are not the only one,s its very frustrating most of this guys that do this are not real swingers in our opinion because we do effort to meet people and respet the time of a couple or person they put in life is busy we dont have time for this bs 

We as a couple dont think there is a shift in the lifestyle its just about the pandemic and the infections people are realy scared and if you had it or know about family who had it and maybe past away of if that makes it to be more cautios to meet and what to say have a play session we would rather spice things up with each other alone whatch porn play with toys just our 5 cents worth have a nice day

So true on all fronts you cant do what you are used to do there is a curview socialise dont exsist makes life stress full the things you did to chill and let go off the daily stress of life is not there anymore well it is but people are scared to practice it because of the virus and this creates more stress and depro reactions we are human beens yes we need human interactions at least we still have each other as a couple but we do whant to socialise and let go from time to time and give each other some space 

Wel we have heard of it and can think of it as a way of recognise other people in the lifestyle because when we go vanilla or lifestyle socialise we tend to have naughty thoughts maybe because its what the lifestyle did to us lol

Would think about people reading our profile i mean just by reading you would know that we would be compatible or not and move on or contact that couple or single,s and yes spelling also the grammar we will try our best but as a afrikaans couple also we will do what we can 

Hi guys well we have a kid but we dont like to do the lifestyle near our kid we dont meet couples or singles with him we go to private parties or clubs from time to time we would think its better that way as the lifestyle we keep away from family time either we do a lifestyle socialise once a month or a date night just our thoughts about it and how we do things 

Well we where still young in our relationship went to a publick swimming pool both where horny did it doggie style in the womens dressing room no one there all in the pool but boy what a kinky experience 

Well we both share this kinky play date fantasy of mfm we did indulge in this plays more times i can remember and still as a husband it just do something to me i cant explaine firstly i didnt whant this fight against it in myself the thought of is something wrong with me that i allow this but the fact is i start to not overthink it to much and enjoy the fun and joy it brings for her and for me i like to see her enjoy other men and also them enjoy her sexyness she have it makes my orgasm so good thinking she enjoy strange men but the best of all is our private sexy time alone its so intence and you know she is yours and only share her from time to time it realy makes life worth it to know whe got some secrets together to share and is sexy as hell secrets 

Well we never know what the future might bring if the covid can just pack his backs and go fun times can be extented beyond our most desired fantasys who knows who can get lucky

On this topic of oral sex my wife just knows how to give a good Bj and guys that experience it also had a good one also if a girl with a tongue piering dont know what she is doing its a no go just my 5 cents .

We came into the lifestyle because the wife whant to explore her bi side well turns out we had more encounters with single men and boy what a turn on to see other men enjoying her never new i had a fantasy to see her enjoy other men its realy something to explore 

Then its time to speak up if you love each other you will be able to talk about it even walk away until its all strong again 

Hi well this is just my 5 cents and what we i and my partner think of the life style both partners must be on the same page and not feeling neclected or undesired by there partners if so we will alway agree to just for a while step away from the lifestyle to give more attention to each other we dont need this its just to spice things up and live out some fantasys we love each other and communication is very important plus trust and respect we will alway be honest and talk about everything to know if and when one of us are not relaxed or in the mood or have insecuritys about a situation and no one of us are in the lifestyle to just please the other one we must be both in it or nothing hope that will help in your situation 

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@PoohC That all is well said we couldnt have say it better well done as there is allot of single guys out there that dont have the balls to commit to there words because its effort to make the real things happen maybe i dont know we also so tired when they start with o she is a beaut hey or she is so sexy and then after that do you share her no shit hey what do we do on a site like this then well only a bit from us ..... greetings peeps 

@SwingerPTA .So true we tend to get that allot also with couples staying far away .

@SwingerPTA . So true we cant get enough of it and i like seeing my wifes naughty face and enjoying it 

@SwingersPTA  On this topic it sure is one hell of a turn on seeing your wife having fun with another guy its something that i cant explain it do to me and the wife we both share this kinkyness and actualy when we came into the lifestyle it wasnt on our to do list but things change i like it and also she liked it and here we are open for exploring i am not bi she is bi but boy do i like to share her o yes i do and it make sex between us lots of fun and interesting. And we have met lots of couples where the males feel the same about this .Its sure not for everybody but different strokes they say.

Well my wife likes to dress up every time she is just mad about living out her sexuality and showing of i like to buy her lingery every time we in the shops whether alone or with her i tend to have a look what will look good on my wife and she likes the sexy numbers mostly red and black we strugle to to get a soft white with a soft pink dont know why maybe we must check out some other places .And also i know she like men with tattoos not overdone and also according to her he must have a nice firm butt well for me you all know our men like it all my wife is longer than me green eyes brunette i alway tend to attract the longer ladys dont know why but i like it for me i like a lady in lingerie the legs the outfit compliment  the sexyness of the lady its super sexy .I will wear mostly a jean with nice t shirt just my style .

@pussinboots1 Thanks for the respond and opinions its so true also that the wifes also must treat the hubbies the same other wise we wouldnt be in the lifestyle swinging is a couples thing to enjoy and its deemed to break you if the one isnt in to it .On the subject of weird sex addicts and i must say its mostly men met them at private partys clubs for me well its just my opinion they act rude no respect to women its in my eyes a weirdness that can be related to sex addicted maybe its just why some of them are single and dont know how to treat a lady and this is not for all the single guys i know there is allot of nice guys it can be a guy part of a couple too . For other people i dont know what is weird we spoke and didnt even met a guy or maybe couple and i can sence a weirdness very fast but what is weird for many people i dont know can anyboday maybe relate. Or maybe you know we all in the lifestyle have a weirdness about ourself lol just a opinion from me .

Well i think there is people out there who is addicted to sex and that makes them weird say weird things having weird fanatasys and and but we dont judge aslong as we can live out our fantasys and thats also why many women dont feel like to free up in the lifestyle they are scared of what people will say because its a lady i know my wife is super secure in herself we keep it diskreet and socialise from time to time with lifestylers in a secure place she likes dress up and get nude as soon as she feel secure i dont hold her back and its just awesome to see a other side of her just in a way how she can freely express her sexuality and have fun men can have fun but women can just as much without to be judge. And the lifestyle give the women so much freedom just depends how the hubbys or boyfriends engourge there wifes and compliment them at end of the day it all start how we as the men treat our women and dont judge them .

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