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chocco
6 hours ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 64
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Quote by Whattodo

My wife and I enjoy the threesomes. I enjoy it to see my wife with another person. I am not well endowed and seeing another man with a big penis doing my wife and it actually started to intrigue me to actually so other penises in real life and I must say sometimes it is actually so attractive at some stages that I actually would like to just touch it

I have been there..in a 3sum with a couple and felt a strange hand on my genitals...was her husband letting his curiosity get the better of him...didnt worry me at all...after all i was inside his wife..πŸ‘Œ

Quote by hansbel

Very interesting piece of writing, thank you sharing your point of view!

The biggest mistake that a lot of men do, usually single - claiming to be "bulls" are the fools paradise that they live in and assume that when a couple are looking for a 3rd player to join in is that the Husband is incompetent in the bedroom and automatically has a small penis! Ironically the majority of so called "bulls" actually have average size penises, in-spite of them claiming the contrary! ....They will come with toilet rolls, spray cans, and tape measures ,,,, and anyone can see the technique that they apply is incorrect - it is easy to ad a few centimeters. Besides most woman will tell you, it is not the size of the penis but rather the way it is applied! And it is not just up to the penis, but also the hands, tongue, body language, respect etc! ... The biggest fact that puts most couples off is the arrogant attitude that some "bulls" have - that if a lady would like more than one male - then that makes her a cheap slut and easy! ..... Most "bulls" needs to be brought back down to earth - The reality - That is that most couples would like to experience these 3soms with a decent person that respects the couple!

What we found is that the true single males that is real swingers that is in the lifestyle generally understand what it is about! unlike the misinformed that think that they are a "bull"

And this is why most couples won't even entertain single males, unlike single females!

Please feel free to agree or disagree and ad your opinion!

Kind regards

Hansel

Totally agree with the points you make...its wife sharing and thus its about respecting the wife as the husband does.

Quote by Bunbuns

Wrong idea of soft swinging! It can be everything but penetration - fondling, oral and kissing.

So singles can soft swing with a couple!

True and correct idea of ss..personally have had some ss thats been mind blowing..

Oh wow!!! Finally worked out how to block back...got fed up with a profile that blocked me ...but persistently checking out my profile...🀣🀣🀣..

Quote by BeeCeeCpt

I have the priviledge of being involved with a BBW. Best fuck ever!

Have to agree with you..a real and confident bbw does tick every box..they can be awesome lovers. My favourite time was with a hot and extremely bbw..i used to call her plumpy...sometimes i still miss her and her curves...

Amazing idea..jist wish I was in Nelspruit. Best idea for as you say being in the midst of un normal people but finding the secret code to socialise with normal folk....πŸ‘Œ

Quote by nerowp

Love it but he must be bi also want to suck his cock with her,or muff her with him inside her.

That sounds like it could be fun..πŸ‘Œ

Quote by BrattyKitty

Fuck I just realised I look like a fake πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜….

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚no you dont...

Quote by BeeCeeCpt

Holy shit! I have also got involved in the D'ville Rose Garden. I was fresh out of school and my girlfriend at the time lived across the road from it, we told her parents we were going for a walk....

In my adult years I have fucked on the bonnet of my car on the side of the road, fucked on the side of the M3 while being stabbed by pine needles, fucked while walking Alphen Trail and Kirstenbosch Gardens, fucked on the beach, fucked in a Woolies change room, received road head..... Many more!

Wow...you've been busy..😎

Personally the more verbal the better....just heavy breathing feels creepy..😎

Quote by nerowp

Want a older bi guy in his late 50s to fuck wife me muffing her with him inside her and after all suck her cum off his cock

Spot on!!! I would love to be that guy...never say never..πŸ˜‰

Quote by AlternativeFun

Yes so enjoy watching Mrs with another guy and joining in

The best a man can get...πŸ‘Œ

If I may add my 5 cents worth...the couple who introduced me to 3way fun were my friends...we started off doing business..became friends hanging out having braais going to rugby etc....and then one day in their office was that contact mag on the desk, open on a page and thinking nothing of it I picked it up and they just grinned. The rest is history and we remained friends and playmates for years...

Quote by daphil

So never thought we'll rant about the good old days at 40 , but here we are ....

This life used to be "easy". Many of our interactions in the early days went something like : hey , hey , like your profile , thanks we like yours , meet for a drink ? , sure , and you meet. That meeting 8 out of 10 times ment coming home with your underwear in your pocket. Was fun right ?

These days it's months of questioning, Group chats , pictures sharing , phone sex , maybe a call or 2 , scheduling and rescheduling meetings, and eventually you might meet 2 out of 10 people that contacted you , and after you become the very best of friends you might play , or realize you don't want to play because you " value" the friendship too much .

Guys let's face it meeting someone is expensive , more so if you have to travel. Why make contact with someone if you can't meet . Why make contact kilos away if you can't travel or host ?

For us it's easy , we would like a face to face as soon as possible, even n video chat . And then we would like to meet , because that's the point . Meeting people , and if compatible having fun .

These days it's just not what it used to be ... and we can promise you , if you are wondering... meeting and playing is much more fun than sharing pictures and compliments on a group chat for 3 years

😎😎😎...the good old days...now at my age i remember the way it was....sase..with some photos...a letter and a land line number.🀣🀣and a chat to arrange a meet and off you went. There were way more meets because those letters sent and received were almost always replied to....because people were in the lifestyle in the real sense of the way.

Quote by Katznbunnies

Thing is, promiscuity, lots of sex and lots of partners, while certainly fun and exciting, isn't swinging lifestyle. Its just being promiscuious, something any vanilla can do and many of them do.

You can be totally vanilla and have sex with somebody new everyday, still wouldnt mean you into swinging lifestyle.

Key word is 'lifestyle' i.e more to it than just sex. In fact, it doesnt even need humping involved at all to be lifestyle.

If humping was swinging, then every cheater, prostitute, pornstar, gigalo, player, sexpest and more would all be swingers, which is most definitely not the case.

Absolutely nailed it on the head!!!! So happy you managed to succinctly put it . Cheers

Im sure you as a couple would still maintain the " natural" aspect...and earning cash as a byproduct ....choices

Long long ago😎 when younger and a newbie to swinging they werent yet in a bucket list but are now in the bucket....

1) husband driving and me and his wife back seat her legs open and me enjoying her..he had full view.

2) asian couple in the bad ole days when it was ...dpying her...him in her mouth me in her pussy and him and i looking at each other....

3) dvp followed by him in her ass while i was in her pussy...and their afrikaans chatter between themselves....

I miss those daysπŸ˜‰

Quote by ruffnmuff

The anklets are meaningless today. You could end up being slapped silly by some chick who has no idea of its original meaning.

Oh dear...πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰

Quote by Justnaughtycent

Maybe try normal guys for a change......the hunks is either bullshitting or choosing between 10 options .Or meet with the guy first....if he doesnt make a effort to meet prior to the play he will definately not pitch.

A pity because both couples here are desirable. Sometimes those superhunks are just that...too good to be true and the genuine guys are not considered....

Quote by altydluspussy
this is not about the age its about the funΒ 

Β sadly there are too many younger peeps who only want younger.....

allow me to add my 2 pennies worth.

A long time ago i spent a lot of time with one particular couple. It was good until the lady invited me for lunch while hubby was away.......well i just ended it there and then.....

Well interesting subject!

I had for a long time swung with a couple, in those interludes we had occasions where when my cock slipped out his wife, he was at the time licking her pussy and yes i guess he licked my shaft once in a while, held my cock and guided it back into her.

Thats not bi, but im not that paranoid that i would take it to be bi or even curious?

Ive never sucked a guy, or had him suck me intentionally, ie asked for it or suggested it, nor would i want to have a session with a guy alone.

Cheers