Hi All,

It’s time for an update….

We have, for the past while taken a back seat in this environment. We have taken the time to discuss think and research between us - what we really want out of this lifestyle. We have been around the block and have had a few experiences. But now we have finally figured out what it is we as a couple are actually looking for. So here goes:

Before we start – A little information about us – as a couple.

Our interests outside of this lifestyle are getting away, photography, reading and good food.

Mr UC loves music, he loves to cook, and he loves Red Wine and Whiskey.

Mrs UC loves reading, and stimulating conversations.

We are not Models! Nope we are real life people. We are not youngsters. But ..... We are real !!! We certainly do not follow the Millennial lifestyle. We are not about body type. We are about awesome personalities. Yes..... WE as normal people have a few body issues. Mrs UC has an awesome curvy fuller figure. Mr UC he is slight to medium build. So - if you are looking for the model type or the Ken and Barbie look a likes - you can stop reading now. We are not that couple. 

If you are still reading - Then you are like minded looking for down to earth folks - not hung up on looks and image.

In our new thought process and in our ideal world we have figured out what it is we really desire. Some of it is actually easily accomplished. Some is the proverbial hunt for the impossible.

Our belief and search is for couples and single ladies. But …. BIG BUT ……. We want to develop these folks we meet into more than just sex partners or as the more common term is used “bang buddies”. That is not our style or our scene. What we are looking to build is friends. Friends we can braai with, friends we can go away with. Friends we can explore the naughty side with – But not at every meet. People that have the same open minded thoughts, that are wanting to develop the new term called “Frelationship” basically a friendship that has the undertones of a relationship. All too often folks only meet up to have fun. We are more interested in developing longer lasting deeper connections with folks.

We already have many friends in this lifestyle. Most of these we have never played with, but are our nearest and dearest friends. It is very rare to find folks that are wanting to connect at this level. To us not every person needs to be a play friend. Our old motto was and I guess still is:-

“We are in it for friends first. If something develops – that is a bonus. If not we still have great friends.”

We are looking to find a lady that wants to have fun with us as a couple. But more than just fun with us, we are looking at building a close “frelationship” with her, for each of us.

You will either have to get to know us for who we are or you will have to be able to hold a really good conversation with us to make us interested...... In any event Mr U believes he is as old as the woman he feels - so that could determine how old you want him to be ......

Our Rules are very simple:

·         Always Safe Sex

·         Always respectful and discreet

·         Always together

Our last rule is about honesty..... If you are married or in a committed relationship and are playing without consent - Please pass us by. We do not judge, but the resulting chaos that it has the ability to bring along with it - Is not something we are looking to have in our life.

Single guys - the deal is this, Mrs UC likes the older type of gentleman (Read here - Grey haired, sophisticated - and by this we mean "Richard Gere in Shall we dance" or "Andy Garcia in Book club"). So in short - if you are younger than she is - you probably are not what she is looking for, unless you are aging prematurely a complete gentleman and most certainly not immature. The secret to Mrs UC is use the biggest sex organ in the body - The BRAIN. She is turned on by intelligent and stimulating conversation. If and when she is ready – She will contact you. As with all lifestyle and swinger rules – The lady calls all the shots. Please respect that – She will contact you.

Just so we understand all, Mr U is straight. Not bent, not skew, not even slightly curved. There is No FLEX in his stance. So guys his answer to any form of Bi – Play is “It’s a NO from ME”.

Mrs U is not Bi. However she is open to a little soft female on female play - if it is with the right lady.

That about wraps it up for us. Drop us a Mail on here if you are keen to explore the same ideals as we are seeking.

Thanks to you for taking the time to read.

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