Having never been to a Swingers party and being a first timer to a Party / Meet and Greet of this sort, which in this case was hosted by the Valentines I was disgusted at the manners of those who didn't a) show and b) didn't have the courtesy to inform the hosts that they weren't going to be there. I was a single man alone as were couple of other single men and yet I was made to feel part of the group by ALL those who attended even though they all knew each other from previous parties/meets. I feel sorry for the Valentines as they went out of their way to organise it. We all had a good, well I did anyway, and it was great to be able to meet new people and I would like to say "thank you the Valentines" for the opportunity you afforded me I'm just disappointed others who should have been there let you down. You did not deserve it