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Thumper
Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 76
0 km · Northwold
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Sexlightened
Hi Guys,
Sun Eden turns 17 or 18 years old this year
We have been attending on and off since they were 2 years old.
We have abiding memories of the most fantastic Y2K party there.
It is going stronger than ever with theme parties almost monthly and socials every other Saturday night.
I can recommend the place highly BUT only for genuine naturist couples and families.
Any shenanigans in the public places will get you frog-marched out of there so fast you'll think you walked in backwards.
In box me for details if you wish.
Hi PIB 
Sexlightened
Religion and upbringing often plays a major inhibiting factor in the whole equation. A couple who can rise above the (false) doctrine that man and women were meant to be monogamous and can delete old programs still running in their heads, placed there by well meaning parents and society in general, will be able to make a clear joint decision unfettered by populace rules and restrictive regulations.
A couple who clings unwaveringly to the concept that the promises made to god on their wedding day (as kids of 23) are all-sacred and to break them would be tantamount to committing spiritual suicide, had better just forget about swinging and continue going to church every Sunday and try to enjoy it. To mix the 2 concepts would just destroy one or the other or both partners, in time.
When societal Victorian and man-made religious type norms and standards clash with and restrict our innermost desires to live out the life experiences that we mapped out for ourselves in deciding to inhibit this plane, then we exist in perpetual mental conflict and anguish for our "3 score years and ten" and leave it without having achieved anything.
In our case, when we finally got down to it, it was a case of : "what took us so long?, we should have started 10 years earlier." and we have never looked back. We are in our 44th year together.
Here endeth the first lesson of the gospel according to Thumper. So Mote it be.
PS: Just do it - don't take life so seriously.
PS: Just do it - don't take life so seriously.
Sexlightened
As you go into Umhlanga over the freeway, turn left at the circle and continue all the way along that road, behind all the thanthy hotels right to the dead end and turn right into a small parking area under the trees next to one of the big hotels. Leave your car there, it should be safe.
Then follow the footpath to the left and across a wooden plank walkway past a toilet block onto the beach. Then go left along the shore till you reach the lagoon. That's it. prepare for quite a long hike.
Cant say how much naughty fun you will have there but you might get lucky. Its supposed to be a genuine naturist beach.
- Enjoy - Give Duncan my regards.... 
Sexlightened
Wife and I were sandwiched between a couple on the left and one on the right, in a crowded restaurant on Friday (Valentine's evening)...
It was lovely to watch these youngsters wooing their maidens. The singers girlfriend was fawning over him and mouthing every word he was singing, with a look of absolute adoration in her eyes and continued applauding after every number even long after the clapping from the rest of the patrons had died down.
We can truly say "Love was in the air" that evening.
But what really attracted my attention was the (older) couple beyond the one to my right, who struck up a conversation with our neighbours and were laughing and joking before very long. They looked to me for all the world, like a swinging couple, full of joir de vivre (ok, spelling sucks).
So yes, I agree, I look at fellow humans in a different light too while in a crowd. Its sooo enjoyable.
So if it was you in that rustic little restaurant in Boksburg, sitting 2 tables away from us, on Friday night............. own up and make yourself known, tell me if I was right or wrong........... LOL
Sexlightened
Just listen to yourselves,
I have been on this site for 2 years and I have yet to come a cross a profile saying: "single females, give us a miss, single females move on, single females, don't call us, we'll call you, if you don't have permission to play alone, stay away......."
and please don't try the story, females don't do as much damage as single males. They can be easily as relationship destroying........
Sexlightened
You are all assuming that because a guy signs up here with a blue label that he is here for some underhanded cheating skelm activities without his wife's knowledge or approval.
Its that attitude that makes us and dogs unwelcome on a site like this.
Catch a life, get real, this is 2013 FFS!
My wife of 43 years, spends her evenings in front of the TV because that is her preference. I spend my evenings here chatting. She knows exactly where I am, she is cool with it, I have her full approval to meet and go with any one I chose, she trusts my judgement. She often pops in out of curiosity to see who I am chatting to. She loves listening to the stories.
We have enjoyed a lifetime of an open, mutually trusting relationship.
So what should I rather do? sign in as a couple when I know she will never actively participate in the activities of the site?, and then be criticized for misrepresenting myself?
No, I chose to sign in as a single.
So please, try and reserve judgement until you have at least exchanged 10 words with the person that carries the blue label with him wherever he may venture on this site.
