You're likely to find something up in the Nothern Hemisphere. Not much around Africa. 

Sounds like so much fun. I could see this working with the right people. Just keep no shows away lol...

I think Poker Nights are a great idea if you have the right circle of friends and venue. I would personally drop the whole sexual side and keep it straight poker. If something on the naughtier side comes out during the game, rather let it naturally happen. This way no one feels immediate pressure before the game begins and keep it cheap. Like R20 or something. I love a light hearted game of Poker. 

Texas hold me :moon:

Do you have a Naughty Toy collection. If so, tell us what your favorite Toy is in your box. Over several years I have collected a fair share of toys and now own a box (that can barely close) full of toys collected at stores or the Sexpo. Out of all of them I must say my favorite Toys are the Vibrator Dildo and the Flesh Light(stamina unit). Both add a little extra fun and I only take them out to play on vacations. So whats your favorite toy right now???

I am sure majority of people have used one at some point or another. I personally enjoy the vibration cock rings but barely use it now days. Looking to get a Hitachi. That should be a fun addition to my Naughty Box....

Well I could be mistaken here but from what I gather, it's a striptease hiking trail. I think there are about 6 (more or less) pebble pools. So you take of on the trail and arrive at your first pool and the sign will read (TOPS OFF) for example. So you toss of your tops and take a dip. Jump out and hike to the next pool which will read (PANTS OFF).... So all the way down this trail you are given a far more revealing task until you get to the last pebble pool which will most probably expect you to be au natural. If it wasn't for the fact I live 12 hours away from there. I would've done it by now but I am planning to go during the summer year end. There is no way I am missing out on it this year...

So true. I could name a couple users that have left that really contributed. I guess not all want to share their views for some odd reason. I guess all we can do is hope for more opinionated users... 

The forums have had a rapid decline in activity mainly because members that were active announced they'd be leaving. Most new members just look and move on but there are a couple of regulars that just aren't as active. Maybe they found a new home in the swinging community. Who knows, but one thing is for sure. If no new members show more interest in the forums. We're doomed...

There is one thing on my list that will remain there until I have done it. The Tsitsikamma striptease trail. I have plans to get that done though matter what. Just trying to plan out when as summer would obviously be the best time to do it. It sounds super fun though. 

Considering the holiday season is upon us. We have a lot more time on our hands to see friends, family and just have a good time away from our stressful day to day schedules. With so much free time we are bound to party and drink a little more than we normally do, leading to some risky bets.  We all have one or two bets we've lost and knew we made the wrong decisions in the heat of the moment. So, what is the worst bet you have ever lost (and I don't necessarily mean bets with money involved)??? I mean losing a bet that results in an embarrassing act, like streaking. Something along those lines. So come on, tell us.. What is the riskiest bet or even dare you have ever lost and completed????

I had hoped that the changes to the site would've made for more active groups but it still seems like a lot of groups are inactive with people not even remembering what groups the in. So my question to all you happy swingers out there is. How active are the groups you are in? Are the group forums ever properly used and are most users active?

To be honest @wbs777, I have had that exact conversation with couples (haven't met a single lady from the site) and the whole thing that people should try respond to every mail gets near impossible when you recieve of 20 messages a day. So you eventually don't log on for a couple of days, come back and realise you have 60+ messages to respond to. It's not as easy as it sounds. So what do people expect? Since my partner and myself split profiles, I am personally happy now. She gets flooded with mail on a daily basis while I can happily browse and respond to all the small amounts of mail I get. When we shared a profile it became nearly impossible to respond to every person that sent a mail. Eventually you'll end up feeling like Swingingheaven should be sending you a paycheck by the week...

This broke my heart. We had a terrible experience too. About 5 years back or so we met up with a couple and lets just say things didn't go well once we entered the room. We were new, inexperienced, didn't communicate sufficiently before it all took place. I can't say I have the words that could solve your mental state but trust me you did the right thing by leaving. It shows you care for one another. From my side we spoke about the ordeal in great detail and looked for possible mistakes we could've made. The reality is not everyone has the right intentions in mind, not everyone is a guru in bed, but the people we have had the most fun with are great communicators. That's one of the things we look for now. I look back at what happened and in a sense, today, I am grateful for how we pulled through it. Hopefully you do too and don't let this break you. I wish you all the best.... 

I myself am part of a couple and must say that majority of single men are ruder than married men. Don't want to right a whole essay here but each side comes with its pros and cons according to personality of course. What we feared most when looking at Married folk playing without consent was the fear of scorn from a hurt partner. So yes you can say we judged people on that primary fear. We all witness relationships crumbling into dust during our lives, but none of us want to be a part of that equation. So thank you for the read. 

Enlightening....

I had to post this game here. It's a great game all round. Whether you with Vanilla friends or swinger friends, it just sets the party mood right up. So the next time you pop into an Adult store, look out for MadWish Truth or Dare. This game has some awesome and compromising truth and dare cards. It was also voted number 1 adult game in Amsterdam (but I stand corrected on that note). The plus side is if any truth or dare is too much for anyone. You simply take a shot and move on. The question is how many shots are you willing to take before you give in to each Truth or Dare