I'm a good looking, always perfectly groomed male. I've always been in the enjoyed everything that the lifestyle with my partner as a couple. We've been members of SH on and of for 7 years. That being said, I am recently single and relocated back to Port Elizabeth. I am very laid back by nature and therefor enter into every experience with an open. Whether playdates are with likeminded couples and singles, the exact same mindset and guidelines apply and that is: Everyone be respectful, be comfortable (not the same as a total absence of some nerves in the beginning of the night) be being open minded, suggestive creatively contribute your ideas to co-nevigate the these hot nights with everyone else.

It is afterall everyone's collective commonalities in their "kinks", fantasies and openness the persuaded all into the same room, house, venue etc.

Don't overthink ANYTHING and Do not let your mind trick you from following through on your fantasies, especially now that you have finally mustered up the courage to take the leap.

Keep everything light hearted and fun and do not hesitate for even a second to compliment your partner and/or playdates for the night. Its reassuring and a confidence boost and a turnon that stimulates creative juices for all.

Express your WANTS, your ever evolving NEEDS by being verbal Don't be hold back showing your arousal and pleasure.

Lastly, STAY in the MOMENT. Soak in EVERY drop of your surroundings and RAUNCHY atmosphere, let abundance of visual stimuli of everything that's happening around you and to you and to your partner and others only fuel your lust.

The best experiences are always seeing everyone part ways after a long, hot night of extacy and mindblowing pleasure that they shared with likemined friends and look of total disbelief and bliss already looking forward to the next one.