I’ve been part of the lifestyle for around 15 years, during which I’ve discovered a lot about what I enjoy — and, more importantly, how to genuinely please the person I’m with in the moment.

I particularly enjoy connecting with couples, especially when the lady is the centre of attention. I’ve attended a number of lifestyle events, including themed parties and group experiences, both in Canada and here in South Africa, and have always appreciated the fun, respectful atmosphere they offer.

I would describe myself as a gentleman — well-spoken, respectful, and attentive to the energy of the person or people I’m with. I value discretion, good manners, and mutual respect. I’m equally comfortable in social settings or more private ones, and I never discuss or gossip about anyone’s personal experiences. I take care of myself, by being active. Easy on the eyes and a pleasant physique - athletic, but not muscular.

Ultimately, I’m here to enjoy what intimacy has to offer and to continue exploring the many facets of my sexuality. It would be great to meet a single lady who’s part of, or interested in joining, the lifestyle.