We meet in the far corners of public parks, car parks at shopping centres or isolated safe spots where we watch or get watched masturbating or having sex in the car or convenient outdoor location. Group members can choose to allow touching or full participation of themselves or partners, while other keep an eye open for passers by or uninvited guests. We know members by the colour of an object hanging from the mirror and flashing the hazards at a distance. Members who are pushy, bad manners or who do not adhere to common courteously and mutual respect will not be invited to or given the location of future gatherings.