Hello. As a couple with many years of experience in the “lifestyle”, we are ideally seeking "friends with benefits" with whom we would have ongoing sexual fun. However, maybe after the first time being naked together we don't click - and that is OK too. Seeking MF couples, and of course a nice F if that happens. Single M? -- hmmm, if you are straight you will probably be ignored - bring something else.

We are both tall, educated, liberal, and well-traveled.

We live in NE South Africa in a small, rural, conservative town, so appreciate discretion all around. We are up for traveling to Joburg, CT, Durban, etc. So even if you are far from us, please say hi. We are “a real couple”, both on-board with this, and are not in a rush to fuck – i.e., if we seem like a couple that would be compatible, we are happy that it may take a while before we meet. We are not averse to those that are new to “swinging” – we are happy to discuss, and are always respectful of boundaries.  We just ask that BOTH of you are doing this TOGETHER.

We have been in various aspects of the swinger/BDSM lifestyle for over 18 years We have recently moved to RSA from overseas, and are just starting to explore things here. We miss our naughty "friends with benefits" in our home country.

We like to stay active physically and mentally, but are not "Ken and Barbie". We're average for our age, but confident in our bodies and sexuality. We both identify as "bi-ish" in that when we play with others we like everyone to be involved, all touching, etc. If you are a couple that is "straight", we are fine with that since we are very respectful of boundaries and like to clearly communicate regarding sex. We just do not want each MF and MF split off and the guys are scared if they touch – or look at - each other (e.g. 100%/totally straight male-half couples likely wouldn’t be a good match).

Besides having sex with our friends, other things we enjoy include cooking, traveling, animals, home projects, reading/movies.

NOTE: If you only have photos of the female half, we assume we'll just be having sex with her (ha!). But seriously, if she is going to have sex with him, don’t you think she deserves to see a photo of him beforehand? Our photos/vids (unless otherwise stated) are recent. We expect to see recent ones from you if we are discussing the possibility of meeting.

NOTE2: We have lived the recent half of our lives in a large, liberal, west-coast U.S.A. city. Thus, regarding those that are smokers: honestly, we just do not have that experience - we don't want to rule out any cool couples, but you'd need to be understanding. In other words - there are a LOT more people that are smokers here than we are accustomed to. Thanks.