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SassyEssence
2 hours ago
Bisexual Black Female, 36
0 km · Pietermaritzburg
About
💋 mmmmhhhhhh
Soft heart. Dirty mind. Honest intentions. 🌹
😘 Feminine, sensual, and a little dangerous in the sweetest way.
👌I’m bisexual and exploring ethical non-monogamy, open to forming or joining a throuple built on trust, communication, and undeniable chemistry.
😘I want the right people to be drawn in those who connect with energy, confidence, and conversation before anything else. If you can’t handle mystery, I’m probably not your vibe.
👌I’m drawn to people who can dominate and initiate not through force, but with presence, certainty, and care. I love the emotional and physical play of BDSM and DDLG dynamics — the tension between control and surrender, always grounded in trust and respect.
Do’s:
– Be honest, kind, and upfront about what you want.
– Respect boundaries — they make everything sexier.
– Bring humour, curiosity, and emotional intelligence.
I’m not traveling to you — be a gentleman. Pick me up, take me out for a drink, and let’s see if the chemistry matches the conversation. If you’re only after a quick release, do yourself a favor and grab a flashlight — I’m not that kind of “fun.”
Please be local to the Pietermaritzburg area. If you’re all about NSA fun, we’re not a match. I believe in safe play — I’ll need to see your most recent STI test results, not just take your word for it.
I’m here for real connection, genuine heat, and experiences that make us both feel seen, desired, and alive. If you can initiate, communicate, and dominate with care, I might just be your favorite distraction 🔥
😠🚫 My Absolute No-No’s:
> Let’s keep it simple and respectful — I’m all for open-minded fun, but there are a few hard lines for me:
• No race play (that means no BWC, BBC, PAWG, or anything fetishizing race)
• Nothing illegal — ever
• No random hookups or NSA encounters
• No casual play — I value connection over convenience
• No married men or “it’s complicated” situations
• No humiliation or degradation — respect is sexy
• No ghosting or “too busy to text” energy
I’m here for genuine, ethical, and exciting connections — where communication is as good as the chemistry 🔥
I’m not here for perfection — I’m here for real connection, delicious tension, and playful energy that lingers. If you can lead with confidence, communicate with clarity, and know when to take control... you’ll definitely have my attention 🔥
Meets
Seeking
Male
Female
Single Trans Male
Single Trans Female
Single Non-binary
Couple
Male Couple
Female Couple
Couple with Trans Female
Couple with Trans Male
Couple with Non-binary
Age: 25 - 100
Distance:
250 km
