pussinboots1  @PoohC  Now that sounds like something, BEING 16 and having a naughty interlude with a couple!!!!

You have no idea. I should actually write it down and post it

Fuck me if I'm wrong but are you an actress?

Don't think it's a dumb question at all... Their is ofren times in a relationship where one of the partners had a "Kink" that they liked and wanted to try and their partner accomodates and does not deny them exploring their fantasy/kink because ir makes them happy. 

If I look at my own relationship and If you asked my wife who's fantasy (idea) was it for her to be a HOTWIFE and to sleep with other guys and she will tell you it was mine. She still jokes everytime she plays with other guys about "The things she has to do because she loves me"  it's 100% my fantasy that we are pursuing. She just wins/scores by default.

I would say that 99.5% of the sexual things we have done have come from my side (I just know what she likes even if she doesn't, lol)

This question shouldn't be confused with the "So who wanted to start swinging" ? Question.

We have met allot of couples that were only playing because their partners wanted them to. In most cases it is usually the husband that pressures the wife into the Lifestyle because the want to shag other woman. So its not so much a fantasy anymore but a selfish personal desire, and they couldnt care less if their partners were ok about it. Most guys have only thought about them shagging someone elses wife but never thought about some other guy shagging their wife. Trust me These play dates always end in Tears (and it's the husband crying). Speaking from many experiences

If you are in the Lifestyle for the wrong reasons it will never be successful.

Everyone is into Kink, They just dont know it yet... 

When i met my wife, she told me that she was Not into being tied up, or spanked, or filmed and there was NO way she would get involved in the Lifestyle...

I just said "Issit"? 

pussinboots1 That's funny we share a similar sexual experience. I was in High School she was the wife of one of the Owners of _ _ee _  _ i_ _ _ Harley Club that my dad and myself belonged 2. Still one of the best blowjobs I have received.

As for the most memorable I wouldn't be able to narrow it down to 1. I've done(And Still doing) some Awesome Crazy Shit.

I've had sex in a (Normal) club allot. Slept with sisters, Group Sex, Sex in the Stands at the Cricket, on Pool Tables (at a Pool hall), Gangbangs etc

But I would say the most memorable would be my first time (on my 16th Birthday) with a couple and the reason I am in this lifestyle.

I suppose you cant be that upset if you find your partner's secret account while you are on the same website using your secret account.

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I wish I would find my wife's secret account (I even set it up for her). Would love to catch her on a date with some guy as well but she is not taking any of the bate (guys) i send her way. Lol

pussinboots1 We would love to be shown "The Ropes" by you... 

Am I the only one that had to Google what Frotting was? Lol

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OMW   What a oldie!!!!!!  Yes well, I did ask for evidence 6 years ago. 

Do you see the lengths have to go through to get you back into the forum and the amount of homework and research I am doing all In aid of impressing you with the hope of maybe receiving 1 or 2 of your toys in the bag in the garage.

Ya pills work. The reason it doesnt appeal to me is As much as i enjoy F#@king, I get turned on more by seeing my partner being pleasured. The more fun she is having the more fun I will have. 

I have to disagree with ErosHimerous37 a bit because My Life is a Porno. Honestly some days I feel like a Rock Star and I have to pinch myself from time to time to make sure I'm not dreaming.

The good thing about a FFFFFM Gangbang is "At least they can all talk to each other after I've rolled over and gone to sleep. And the breakfast in the morning is going to be KICK-ASS!"

That was a joke...

I couldn't think of anything worse. 

did you ever have this Gangbang?

sexysam69 looks like you know allot more then most people do.

It is also difficult to seperate Sex from emotion. In swinging / having sex with other people is just an enjoyable Physical action and has nothing to do with love or emotions.

If My wife had to come home and find me having sex with another lady she wouldn't even think twice about it But if she had to find out I went for coffee or drinks with another woman she would lose her Sh1t, and rightfully so. It is then no longer just a physical thing but now it has become emotional...

Kinky Jade why the Hell do you live so far.... Number 5 on your list!!! You are exactly the lady my wife needs to become "Friends" with.

I agree with redbruce "so I don't think that there would be any harm at all in you resurrecting some of your old Forum topics"

I myself have gone back and read most of the posts from the last couple of years. It would be interesting to see if any of the people from the past still feel the same way about certain topics as they used to...

We have a F#CKIT List that we are busy working through. The fun thing about the list is it will never end due to us always adding new things to do...

The day I see my pictures in a random google search is the day I Fist-Bump my wife and pat myself on the back! Only celebrities have their "Sex Tapes" leaked... Us Mortals have to leak our own Sex Tapes. I stand on William Nicol giving out free dvds. Lol

Well said Sam. Um if I may ask ... could we see some pictures from your interracial play dates ( For research purposes only) *Asking for a friend...

BOTH couples are still married. They didn't swing with each other but they still remained friendly as there were kids involved from both sides. 

Again this is a rare accurance

A friend of mines parents used to swing with a couple that they were friends with. They used to go on holiday together etc 

(Cutting one short story long)

Both couples ended up getting divorced and marrying each other's exes. They have been married for 20+ years..

This is a Fluke! 

Firstly the reason why most people swing is to take care of our physical needs. If you are a swinger because of your emotional needs you shouldn't be doing this.

Another problem is if you are firstly going to build your new relationship on "You cheating on your Ex " Your new relationship will always have Trust issues.  It will always be at the back of your mind.

Another problem is if you are leaving your partner for someone just because they were good in sack and you had awesome sex then you are an idiot! 

The sex will obviously be exciting especially if you are sneaking around doing it... The problem is once you are in a relationship it's not that exciting anymore, so you better make sure you have something else to talk about...

That's my 2cents anyway 

So I went back and read allot of the "Fact" stories. Lol! Ok I would like to apologize for my previous comment/defence of the stories. Some of them really push the boundry of reality and the supernatural. I suppose it's the same as when guys swop fishing stories... 

It's MY Story and I can Make My C#ck as BIG as I Want!

You can't really blame the guys for writing this shit. Obviously the Pretending to be in a relationship (And your wife approves and wants you to play alone while she is at an imaginary work thing) As well as using a woman's picture is not working, so this is the next step.

The more awesome and fantastic  you make yourself sound the sooner all the woman on here will phone and beg you to sleep with them...

We should call their bluff and arrange to play with them (To show us what Godlike studs they are in the sack)

They will be more nervous and lost then Jehovas Witnesses that you invite into your house.

A while back I built my wife a sort of make-up station in our bedroom (in an attempt to contain the blast radius of her getting ready in the morning)  

Had a friend help me secure the wooden panels etc. As I finished tightening the last screw I looked at my creation and went straight to the garage and got a hole saw. 

When the wife got home I proudly showed her the gloryhole station I had made her....

It's obviously not exactly the same as going to ones with strangers but it is still fun. Also gets fun with 3 or 4 couples and then the guys guess who is the lady sucking... you get the point.

Let me throw a spanner in the works. Let say I have a "Friend" whose wife wants to have pictures taken and felt up, while passed out. Not necessarily from being drunk but more from a sleeping tablet....

Lol, so the husbands are not down for their wives wanting a bit of BBC... 

So actually you shouldn't be that upset because technically speaking it's not really a race thing... more of a "Package" inadequacy issue....

I'm sure those same couples husbands would have a problem with white guys that are well endowed as well.

So F#ck them anyway, better yet DONT F#ck them. They did you a favour. 

bob969 yes the pictures are of me. 

I unfortunately was not blessed when it comes to penis size. I have come to terms with having a small package and it doesn't bug me anymore. It's taught me to try harder with the ladies. Also what I lack in penis size I make up with my sense of humor 

For me I find a woman's back sexy. I'm not really a tit or ass kind of guy never have been.

But the thing that turns me on the most is if a woman has a little bit of cellulite just under her bum and this is visible when wearing those denim shorts ...

The things I will do .... I will not be held responsible. Lol

From our experience it is always the Men that have had issues never their wives. We have seen this at clubs and when we have hooked up with couples.

I think allot of guys "force" their partners a bit into this lifestyle because they really want to shag other woman. Their wives reluctantly go with it to keep their husbands happy. 

The guys are so excited and horny when meeting to play until you touch their wives or the wives start to enjoy themselves a bit. Most guys can't wait to shag another guys wife but the minute someone shags their wife all hell breaks loose. 

We have had many husbands in tears...

Where the problem comes in with a Single Woman is with her being BI. (THIS MIGHT BE WHAT HAPPEND TO YOU) And they are actually not even really curious. We experienced this in my wife's early bi curious days. We met woman that were supposed to be bi and I was excited that they could sort of "show my wife the ropes" but when we met up they really only wanted to play with me. This was a huge issue and their were a few bad choices that almost destroyed my wife's curiosity.

We have spoken to hundreds of Bullshiters, had some awkward experiences, met some duchebags and Asshole's along this journey. And most people would have probably left this lifestyle... 

But thanks to a few singles and a few couples and the strength and fire this lifestyle has given our relationship it is all worth It!

So um  What does your Mrs class as a Extra Large Package - 

Asking for a friend

LOL