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if interested
The ratio is the same about 4:1 ...
That is people who try the life and then separate and people who come together in the life and the separate.
You would think people who already have exposure would be more of a success story... right ?
Well no .... sadly and the big killer is jealousy and it's not the girls it's the boys. Jip boys gets jealous because us girls have more fun. And the plucks everything up. It's like on a preschool playground.... he wants to play with the others toys , until some other kid makes his toy look more fun .
I have seen many fights/arguments over the years. I've seen people get jealous. I've seen people cry. Ive seen people storm off. I've seen people get aggressive.
What I haven't seen is; any of the above done by a woman! 100% of the time the issue is always from the male.
I definitely agree that a lot of woman are "Forced" into the lifestyle due to their husbands wanting to shag other woman. The wife just goes along to try keep her husband happy and relationship from ending.
SPOILER ALERT
If you join this lifestyle to save your relationship, The Success you will have is Twice as effective as having a baby to save a relationship.. IT WON'T LAST!
I'm not Judging anyone's relationship or trying to change people's views to mine. I don't mind if my wife plays with a single guy or if she plays with the male and I don't play with the female couple. That's because I get turned on and sexual pleasure from seeing my wife get pleasured.
Having said that, I think it would be a bit unfair if only the husband was allowed to sleep with someone but the wife was not allowed, due to the husband's jealousy
The lifestyle is supposed to be all about honesty, acceptance and openness of sexual experiences.
The philosophy of the lifestyle is freedom in sex.
In swinging there isn’t supposed to be any cheating because you should have already discussed, agreed and encouraged each other to have sex with others—either with their consent or, more often, with their assistance!
It seems counter-intuitive that having sex with others can make a relationship stronger, but it is often the case. The openness, the acceptance, the willingness to let go, the trust associated with your permission can all lead to a partner who is more appreciative and loving. Of course, a very strong, stable and solid relationship is a prerequisite.
I also read The divorce rate of swingers is only 2%