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Pollemans
Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 51
0 km ยท Overberg DC

About

Coming out of a complicated relationship but still wanting to play. I'm uncomplicated but thoughtful. The school of life has been an exhilarating experience thus far that has left me knowing what I like and don't, with the conviction to treat each with equal respect and continually reevaluate.

I don't do drama, faking or disrespect, if you feed on this please move on, people are overall amazing and our sexuality and expression of such is an amazing experience to share, explore and enjoy with others. I believe in woman's rules and not pushing boundaries without approval... I do like pushing boundaries though. ๐Ÿ˜‰

That said, I am not exclusively  looking for a new woman / couple every weekend but something more substantial that can open up doors that often only open with some trust and familiarity. Is that still out there? I am fiercely private and my kids are my priority. My life is scheduled around theirs. 

I am clean. I am playful. I am into new adventures. I am open to most things. I am straight, but have been in threesomes before. I am not judgemental. I love each detail of sensuality. I prefer shaved or waxed but really everyone is unique so even this is not set in stone. I don't like loud gatherings and throngs of people. I'd much rather prefer a quiet space to make some private noise. 

I am not looking for a porn star glossy magazine body couple or woman, I'm no gym bunny but am moderately fit. I am not looking for seedy hotel room liaisons. I am not a chancer. I am not the cliche desperately seeking a fuck. Then again I'll likely not turn it down. ๐Ÿ˜. 

If I sound like someone you'd like to know more of, drop me a line, let's meet for coffee and a chat. The worst that can happen is we don't end up sated and exhausted and who knows we could become friends. 

If all this sounds doable there is one more thing, if you are unwilling to consent to an instant HIV test then this won't work out. 

Have fun, stay safe. 


Interests

Anal sex
Erotic writing
Masturbation
Oral sex
Outdoor sex
Role play
Straight sex
Threesomes
Voyeurism

Seeking

Age: 35 - 60
Distance: 200 km