Hi everyone,

I’m a 35-year-old South Indian housewife, new to South Africa. I moved here a year ago from India, following my husband who got a job here. I’m a mother and living a quiet, traditional life on the outside but on the inside, I’m going through a lot emotionally. To be honest, my marriage hasn’t been fulfilling, and lately, I’ve been feeling emotionally and physically neglected. I’m not sure if being here is right or wrong, but I came across this platform and decided to explore just out of curiosity, maybe even a need to feel alive again.

I’m not a modern woman, and I’ve never done anything like this before. I’m just a simple Indian woman trying to understand if there’s something more to life, if someone can guide me gently into this lifestyle, with honesty and without judgment. I don’t want my husband to know, so I’m looking for someone who understands discretion.

I know I’m a married woman… a mother of two children… but there’s another part of me that feels deeply empty. Unhappiness has silently become a part of my marriage something I never expected, but have slowly accepted. I can't even think of divorce. I have no stable job, I’m living in South Africa on my husband’s visa, and everything around me the culture, language, even the people still feels unfamiliar. It’s only been a year since I moved here, and I feel lost.

Coming from a traditional Indian background, I’m sure many of you understand men lead, women adjust. We’re told to stay quiet, accept less, and keep the family name clean. But what about us? Our emotions, our bodies, our needs? Being a housewife in a foreign land, I sometimes wonder who am I now? What’s my place in this world? In 10 years of marriage, not once did my husband praise me, touch me with love, or make me feel like a woman in the house or in bed.

That’s why I’m here.

I’m looking for someone real a man who can talk to me, spend time with me, understand me. Someone who can guide me, teach me, and slowly awaken the part of me that’s been ignored for too long… In every way emotionally, mentally, and yes… even the naughty ways I’m only beginning to discover. If you’re kind, respectful, and can help me navigate this space safely and slowly, I’d love to connect.

Now i am making my friendship cercle, please let me know there any groups, events groups, tiktok group, other app groups, telagram groups with similar interests.