I'm looking to connect with people who are open-minded, smart and caring.

I am happily married to we have an open and polyamorous relationship.

I'm definitely kinky and love the sensual side, I find a mindful connection to myself in my kink world and to escape is sublime.

Outside of kink, I'm a ferocious reader, love getting my hands dirty in my garden, connecting through community work and the outdoors and camping. Music keeps me sane and helps me find words when my head is too noisy to find my own.

Professionally I am a sexuality coach and counsellor supporting sex positive folk exploring their gender/orientation/gender expression/relationship structure.

I run providing open community learning, social, and play events.