Hey there - I've been around the site for a few months now, just quietly exploring and getting a feel for the vibe. I'm married, and like many in this space, I've found myself curious about the lifestyle. For a while now, I've been trying to figure out how to open up the conversation with my wife - how to gauge her interest, or even see if the idea of shared experiences could be something for us.

I'm not here to rush into anything. Right now, I'm just looking to connect with others who've been in the same boat - people who've navigated this with honesty and care. Whether it's advice, conversation or just getting to know like-minded people, I'm open. If you've been where I am, I'd love to hear how it went for you.

Curiosity killed the cat but satisfaction brought it back