I am a married woman (married to a woman) who loves pure connection and sexual adventure.. I am looking for more than casual sex. Long term connection and sexy arrangements with a like minded professional women, who are preferably married themselves, as I am not looking for a relationship that may evolve into cohabitation.  To me it is a seductive dance of flirtation, dates, chats, getting to know each other before the ultimate moment when we get skin to skin. I prefer women 40 and older. Intelligence, wit, and the ability to capture my mind before my body. I am 46years old, and definitely do not look like Barbie. If weight is an issue, I probably wont work for you... I have a few extra kilos, and physical proof of carrying two children. I am however, feminine, sensual, clever and fantastic in bed. If you are worth it, if it works, I will blow your mind.  Please do not contact me if your profile says nothing about you. I love verbally expressive people. Sex is in the mind as much as in the body. 

*added a little later...* Sigh.... guys I get lots and lots of requests. It does however become tiring and time consuming if people dont consider my preferences. So let me spell it out more carefully: 

-women only-!

- I am not the local escort service, and I a not into casual sex. I like flirting, meeting for dinner and chatting before we consider taking our clothes of... So please no inboxes asking to meet you at your hotel tonight at 7. I am in it for the total experience, if I just wanted an orgasm I can pretty much manage it myself.

- I will not respond to 20 something guys or couples, no matter how large and gorgeous your dick or your wife`s boobs are.  - for many reasons. Please respect that preference.

- I live in Johannesburg and will not be interested in people from Limpopo, KZN and all the other provinces, unless you frequent Gauteng. I am not in it for the sexting or the pics, even though it can be a fabulous add-on.

- I do this in a classy, decadent way - so no, its nkt sexy if your nickname is something like hornycock or mustmuffnow...
- If you dont have a narrative on your profile, I will rarely be interested as it gives me no idea whether we like the way you approach this. 
- Please dont just send me invites to your private photo albums. We know a lot of you get a serious kick from bodies only, but we get a kick from a good mind way before we want to touch you - so please chat first.