Update:

Thanks guys for all the messages etc. whilst we appreciate attention from the guys it’s disconcerting that many don’t read our requirements. Going forward we would like to emphasize the following -

Don’t pretend to be a couple and then message us either some excuse as to why the lady is not available to meet. Rather be up front and say you are single and give us a reason for continued interest in your profile. Dishonesty from the get go is enough to put us off permanently. We can’t trust people who feel necessary to misrepresent their relationship status. We don’t care what your relationship status is. That’s your business.

We are interested in a number of different permutations. Mmf, fmf, mfmf mfm, are all welcome. Preferred age 40+. If younger, please note that we are not the same generation but would enjoy your company if you are comfortable with that.

So who/ what are we?

Couple who also enjoy time on our own looking for a couple/group/lady/hetroflexible guy for longer term fwb for full swap/group/same room fun.

Interested in the full sexual dynamic of what the lifestyle offers.

Please single guys don't flood us. You must be at least hetroflexible and be very special if you not a couple.

We respect your sexuality and don't come on to those who are not similarly wired. Please respect ours

Not novices but not hard core either. Just enjoy the dynamic of sharing the enjoyment others bring to the party either individually or together.

What does this mean? Well it doesn't mean that we will meet and play with everyone. It means that quality over quantity is the watch word.

What are big turn offs?

Persistent people who don't understand that no is no, gaslighting individuals, people who pretend to be one thing and are in fact the other, people who only want a wham bam and then vanish, people who drink too much, people who need booze or drugs to play, people who are unhygienic, people who are crude or rude.

What we do enjoy are people who are aware of their sexuality and who enjoy sexual dynamics. Neat and tidy individuals hygienic people, people who can hold a conversation and not necessarily want to dive into the play and then leave without so much as a by your leave. We are not mere receptacles. We are human beings

We don't want to meet people where the one partner is doing things out of a obligation and is not really into it.

If you arrange a meet please arrive and if it's supposed to be with a partner and you arrive alone rather just leave as we are not interested. Qualified singles will know who they are.

We are not into long email exchanges and would prefer that that was understood. The attraction is usually in person or it's not. Photos don't always tell the right story. If we get to photos rather send recent ones. It won't help to send outdated ones. What you looked like 20 years ago is not accurate today.

Looks are a lot less important than attitude. Being pretty norman people with life written on our bodies we know that others are the same. The only real decline would be the morbidly obese as we don't want to have to deal with hear attacks or strokes.

Your relationship status is none of our concern. You leave those issues in your car please. That is your business alone.

We don't use chemical enhancements would prefer that you didn't either. We react very well to like minded individuals.

We don't judge you and your life outside of this playful interaction. It is yours and is private. We expect the same.