I am not really sure what I am looking for...I have met a few from this site and its really not what I had hoped for..perhaps I am too fussy, weight,looks etc are not a huge factor - but its helpful! But CLEANLINESS is something that I will not compromise on. I look at your hands, your fingernails ...guys a splash of aftershave on a clean face .. works a treat too! If you arrive in slops then I expect the feet to be groomed as well ...cut nails, heels of the feet nicely looked after etc ...that's what I call clean! ...and you can expect the same from me ....and guys, I still don't do smoking ...I can smell it on you meters away.