I'm a Capetonian with extensive experience of the swinger and BDSM scenes in Europe, where I have attended numerous clubs and private parties in the Netherlands, the UK, Austria and Hungary. I travel regularly back and forth between Cape Town and Europe, and now (March 2022) I am happily discovering that there are also open-minded people in my home city! 

Apart from enjoying my own 'activities' to the full, I am one of Amazon's best-selling erotica authors. I write under the name James Grey. 

For those on Fetlife or JoyClub, my profiles on these platforms are under the same username, Kapfisch. For the time being these are somewhat more complete than this one!